First off let me say, my status says that I'm not looking for a relationship. That's not quite right, it just didn't have the option that I'm looking for. I would like to meet some new friends, but if the right person comes along I would definitely love to be in a relationship. I smoke, but usually only socially, so when I wake up in the morning I'm reaching for a puff. I don't smoke in the bedroom and very rarely smoke in the home. My hobbies right now are mostly country cruisin, and going to listen to the live bands. I own my own business and am pretty strapped down. I was able to go deer hunting 1 time a couple of years ago and absolutely loved it, just don't have my own license or the time right now to be able to do it again. I love fishing, in fact I was the fisher woman in the family. My parents farm has a couple of pond i used to fish on a regular basis. I've never had the chance yet, but I would love to try some deep sea fishing in the ocean.
I'm a very goal oriented kind of person and have many plans for the rest of my life yet. Yet I can be very disorganized at times. I hate to be told I can't do something. I usually try to prove them wrong. I am the mother of 4 kids- 17, 15, 14, 12, two boys/two girls. I have custody of them. I do not receive child support as I did not ask for it. My kids are my biggest pride and joy, I have a very good relationship with everyone of them. I won't say they will always come first as they and I have learned since I own my own business, sometimes being able to provide for them comes first.(Running my business, it's just reality) But they understand sometimes I just need my own time and my own space. I try to always make time for each one of them. I'm a Lutheran and practice going to church as much as i can and am looking for the same in a friend. I grew up on a farm with eight sisters and two brother and did a lot of the farm work, so I am very physically strong for a women, so being a bit of a bigger/taller/stronger guy is right up my alley. I'm big boned so I will never be small. I am extremely DRAMA free, I've been told if I was any calmer, I'd be dead. It takes a lot to rile me, and a lot to piss me off, but it can be done ;) I love all kinds of music. Don't like it blaring out the speakers though. I like to be able to hear someone speaking to me. Mostly country, oldies, and old rock. If I've had a few beers and in the right mood, I like dancing to rap music,(weird!) other than that I really can't stand it. Did you know the rapper M&M is white? Crazy@! My kids just informed me of that a couple months ago.
So if you have any questions just ask, I'm usually a very private person, though understand there's somethings people need to know.