Hustle hard. Because a person who is hating, won't understand someone who is hustling.
IF I don't respond-- please don't take it personally. You're not my type. I have my sh*t together, somewhat, which keeps me plenty busy. IF someone really catches my attention-- I'll definitely respond. I know what I want, and I know what I definitely don't want. I do read every message, at some point. I just choose not to respond to them if I'm not interested. Ain't no business owner got time for that! Makes the world a more peaceful place when I don't have random internet babies yelling at me on POF.
BTW, I work out so I can eat. I love eating delicious foods. My goal is just to be healthy and generally fit. So yes, I own a gym. Yes, I am a coach/trainer. And yes, I might not look like your typical buff bodybuilder type female fitness model, but I'm pretty strong despite some nagging injuries due to a car accident. I'm just a happy girl, who happends to love lifting and also eats a lot of delicious food.
-Instagram. See if you fit in to my life: @FitOCfoodie
-I was (not anymore as of 2014) a head trainer for Fit Body Bootcamp, former Realtor/CA Notary Public, and long time service industry person.
-Passionate, stubborn, feisty, fun, sassy, outgoing and very open and honest woman... I have no shame, I don't hide things much.
-FOODIE here, I love dining out, but I try to keep it fairly healthy. **I absolutely love cooking & baking.
-I am a "happy" person who gets along with just about anyone- I'm not shy whatsoever and I make friends very easily.
-I like to take care of myself by eating right (as much as I can) and I work out at Anaheim CF West & trained in weightlifting w/ Kilofornia Barbell back in 2015.
-BTW: I LOVE MY LIFE. I am happy and content; I don't "NEED" a man, "want" is more appropriate, but I am very traditional in what I want and would love to eventually settle down and have a happy life with a loving family, so I keep my eyes, ears, and heart open. I'm a HOPELESS ROMANTIC.
re: PREFERENCES (the Cliff Notes version)
First: do you even LIFT? Just a pre-preference. ;)
1. Ages: around my age, and LOOKS my age.
2. Euro-American, mixed races, love brunettes...
3. Height: I prefer TALL guys.
4. Location: LIVES in or near North OC, I live by Knotts Berry Farm/Disneyland. YOU: within 15 min of DLand.
5. My dream type? Fit, strong, nice head of hair, wicked sense of style, and a killer smile. I like a FIT man who takes care of his body. It's a hint of how he takes care of things in his life, including his woman.
(Typically) NOT MY TYPE:
-Serial Texter. Seriously, not my form of communication.
-Uses Drugs or drinks/parties often.
-Bald/shaved head (I like a nice head of hair).
-FOBBY (if you're offended, you're not my type anyway).
-Vegetarians/Vegans, sorry-- I can't even...
*Just being honest*
P.S. I like all types of people... but this isn't a FRIENDS site. I'm picky when it comes to dating. I don't have time to FAKE-date a person I'm not into. Oh hey, and if you ask for my number... and I give it to you... maybe try CALLING it... I am not into games. Too busy running a small business.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
>> Everything I wrote in this section is just EXTRA mumbo jumbo... it's all true, just not necessary.
NOT LOOKING FOR A RANDOM HOOK UP. Booty calls are a dime a dozen and I'm over that shit, plus it's not hard to get one...
I really HATE HATE HATE TEXT-conversing. Don't TEXT me if you get my number. I use my phone for PHONE CALLS. Texting is ok after I meet a person.
re: 1st DATES aka "MEETING" for the 1st time...
I like to keep things simple. Bite to eat, a drink, small talk. You'll know within ONE phone call if you want to meet and and ONE date whether or not you want to see me again. And vice versa.
"Life's a ****. Because if it were a SLUT, it'd be EASY."
"Do or don't. There is no TRY."
"If you do what you've always done-- you'll get what you've always gotten."
"Just keep moving forward and don't give a sh*tabout what anybody thinks. Do what you have to do, for you."
"Money is right up there with Oxygen." (This is Real Estate talk)
"Don't mistake MOVEMENT for ACHIEVEMENT."
"Don't sweat the small stuff [...] It's ALL small stuff."
"If there is a shadow cast on your day- SMILE. Shadows mean that the sun is still shining."
"Sometimes we put up walls-- not to shut people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down."