I'll make this direct and simple. I'm highly motivated to meet people. I have no kids, no baggage, no ex-wives. I don't chase people, that's a game I played when I was a kid. I'm direct, but not crude. I just see no point in beating around the bush. I try not to lie, simply because it takes more energy to lie than tell the truth, so why waste the energy? I am looking for intelligence, kindness, and most importantly someone who's got things on track and doesn't "need" me, but rather "wants" me in there life. Independent, secure is what I'm looking for. I'm kind to a fault(have you looked at my professions?) Please, do not mistake that for weakness, many have thought me a fool and tried to use me for some purpose, this is a err on the side of incompetence. I am old fashion to a degree (open doors, pull out chairs, etcetera) if being chivalrous offends your nature, then please feel free to stop here and move on. I do it not to impress, but out of respect. I'm a funny guy, all my acquaintances say so. I'm a bit nerdy/geek streak (Galifrey anyone?) so if I sound up to snuff, drop me a line. I will tell you out the gate if I'm interested, I see no point in leading people on, so please do me the same courtesy.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I am not sure what it would involve other than you, me and an activity. Movie, doubtful. You really can't talk to someone in a movie, well you can, just don't expect friendly movie patrons! More likely we will go bowling, dinner, dancing (salsa/pasa doble anyone?)picnic. Flowers are a given, so is opening car doors, doors, pulling out your chair (my momma taught me right!) everything will iron out, if you will, when we get to know each other, I don't believe in "cookie cutter" dates.