First off let me state this upfront: I am not looking for anything serious if it happens (it's cool) if not then no big deal. I like my space and presently I like to go out have a wonderful date (dinner, beach, something that we both can consider fun). At the end of the night we have had a wonderful time, and I go home. I would really like to have a friend (first). The rest of life can happen one heart beat at a time. I just want both of us to be comfortable , no pressure.
Things that I enjoy doing: Of course goofing off with my kids (adult Children 22 and 20). I for sure enjoy walking on the beach lately its been with a hot cup of coffee. It gives me time to reflect, besides its so peaceful just walking next to the surf. I enjoy reading books, lately its on my iPad. Of course there is a lighter side of me as indicated I love just kicking back, like walking playing 18 or just 9 holes of golf, how can I forget a mile or two run around the streets. Of course I live to travel, both professional (work related) or personal (too many frequent miles), on the other hand I travel too much and most times I give the miles to my kids. I am a roll with the flow type person, and at this stage of my life I try to just follow not lead. I call it trying: not to kill my brain cells with superfluous BS, instead use them to have fun.
All of my pics when showing are current meaning less than a year old. I workout 3 to 4 times. One last thing not to be crude; I'm not really interested if you have too many tats, I have several quality functions to attend and I'm not interested in your pretty dress with all the tats showing. Lets just say your not my type. Thank you for understanding. Oh lately, I've been hiking up the trails, it's been a lot of fun and a good workout love going to the top where the flag pole is ( Chumash Trail). Maybe I will see you on the trail, it could be a first date. LOL.
At times I can be found on yahoo: CANiceGuy1 - Stands for: CA Nice Guy one
Last thing about me is I'm really 56 not 50, I can't change the profile setting concerning age. Take care.
PS: I'm only looking for the good girls, not interested in the bad girls. They can lead you astray. LOL
I am an easy going guy, I just roll with the flow of things. So whatever your comfort level is: then that is my comfort level. Ok enough of this, the down and dirty first date is a cup of coffee/tea (just a quick drink of something, maybe a beer) for if we don't hit it off then it's over in a few minutes and if we do hit it off. Well we can take it from there: maybe dinner, a movie....... I think it will be a dinner this way we can chat over a nice meal. As far as a movies just too much quite time (that might be a fourth or fifth date night), after all we are still getting to know one another.