theyoder: Laughing, fun = GOOD!
About
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
City
North richmond, California
Details
40 year old Female, 5' 7" (170cm), Other
Ethnicity
Mixed Race, Aquarius
Intent
theyoder is looking for a relationship.
Education
Bachelors Degree
Personality
Profession
Work with kids


dating
Bulls Hockey with a couple friends






I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 1 year
Pets Cat  



About Me
Hi!
My hobbies...
I tend to work a lot, but when I have time I like to cook, watch TV and movies, spend time with friends/family, read and laugh. Bluntly I don't do as much active stuff as I want to sometimes, but I am working on that. When I can I like to ride my bike from my house out to Emeryville to have coffee and read at the Public Market. I enjoy going for walks around my neighborhood. Between where I work and where I live I enjoy finding new places to eat - I love food, I accept that (newest craving - Hot Italian Bar in Emeryville). I have a ritual midnight movie premiere event with coworkers and friends for the things we want to go to (most recent - Hunger Games I think- its been awhile. Upcoming - SKYFALL!) I like Niners and Giants games but haven't been since last season.
Goals/Aspirations...
It's an interesting time for me work wise. Just left my job of ten years (working in residential treatment) and am actually really enjoying figuring out what to do next. I want to go back to school for a MSW within the next year. I want to go swimming at least once a week at the Natatorium (Richmond Plunge that is). I have a BLAST at local roller derby. I want a relationship. By choice haven't dated much and with the job I had, there wasn't a lot of options. Or time to. Hence, here I am. The ideal scenario (at least as of right now) is becoming friends and seeing what it can build into.
What makes me unique...(?)
My baby sister and I joke that we're of an elite 2 person sect of the Vietnamese-Amish (if you get that, you get bonus points). I taught my cat to fetch. I work with kids - normal ones, at risk ones and flat out crazy ones. I'm good at it and enjoy it, despite it occasionally sucking all my free time/energy away. It allows me to stay childlike and appreciate more of the things around me. I have a contract job teaching rock climbing and rapeling, which I wish I could do more. I used to work security at concerts, saw SO many bands, such amazing experiences. When I manage to travel ANYWHERE outside the Bay Area I love it. I recently became re-addicted to Disneyland and am looking forward to the next trip (do you know there's a mickey mouse on every ride?) Kirk Hammett hit me in the eye with a pick at a show and Jason Newsted apologized to me for it. It took me a long time to figure out what I wanted to do in life (career wise) and thus a college degree took awhile. I like to keep busy for the most part, but every now and then I seriously need to power down my brain, be lazy and do nothing.
Music - I like pretty much everything. 2 faves - Metallica (see above) and Sinatra. I was raised on and exposed to all kinds of music. I may not know it, but I'll probably like it or get into it.

First Date
I'm not very good on picking just one thing; as long as it's a fun relaxed way to get to know someone, I'll love it. I like walking around - a walk, coffee and talking would be something I'd like. Maybe food and wandering around a store. I feel you can learn a lot about each other by the things you like looking at a store - Barnes & Noble, Fry's and Target would be my faves.


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