"Every time one notices that ones female partner is not best pleased, asks what is wrong, and receives the answer 'if you don't know I'm not going to tell you' this is essentially adding selection pressure upon an increase in brain size that facilitates the inferring of mental states of another. And thus, over evolutionary time the human brain continues to increase. The upshot of this being, this adoption of an emotionally cryptic selection mechanism on the Machiavellian intelligence of males has caused the human brain to increase to such a size that it struggles to pass through the birth canal without elevated risks to the mother. Even the morphology of skull altered to allow for easier passage.
Essentially this means that countless deaths during child birth, alteration of skull morphology, and even the birthing of babies many months prior to their brains being a level of development equivalent to other mammals was easier than people being honest with each other.
Nature "centers me", something like the Huntington or Descanso Gardens would be brilliant in my opinion.
I do not drink at the moment, and altho I typically become a very happy drunk, I began to indulge excessively over the past few years and allowed apathy to slip in under the radar taking me deeper down the rabbit hole. Consequently I'm sticking to not drinking, at least for the remainder of the year, but have no problems with going to a "social drinking venue". My sobriety is self inflicted, I don't expect everybody else to do the same :P