Hi, my name is Aimee and I suppose, unlike most women, I'm not difficult to figure out. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am kind to a fault. Drama just doesn't suit me, so I definitely don't play games. The majority of my friends are guys. I'm not really sure why I don't have the typical group of girlfriends that a lot of women do. All of the stereotypical traits about women gossiping, being fake, having mean jealous streaks, etc., ...well...I just don't have the time or the patience for it all. My guy friends tell me it's because some women are intimidated by me. I'm a pretty funny woman with a very quick wit (laced with just a TAD of sarcasm) and the unfortunate inability to filter what I say. I've been told that it's that very thing that makes me so funny and fun to be around. One more thing...and I'm sure other people have claimed this too...but I swear I'm not crazy. I have the documentation to prove this. That padded room and straightjacket cured me for good. If you're looking for someone who is honest, straightforward, kind, generous, silly, smart and just a LITTLE bit off-center, consider me.
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR IN A MAN:
Life experience has allowed me to REALLY figure out just what traits a man possesses are truly important to me. Every person is unique, so to give a blanket description of what my perfect match is, I find it much more effective to tell you the things that are fundamentally most important to me. For me, in order to have a successful, happy and long-lasting relationship, there MUST be Trust, Communication, Honesty, LOTS of Laughter and for me to feel completely comfortable being my goofy, sweet, emotional, intelligent self. Other than that, certain qualities that I may find undesirable in one man, just might happen to be the most endearing quality I find in another man. Anyone who has ever been in a relationship knows that distinct feeling you get when things just fit. That's what I'm looking for.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Definitely not a movie. It's impossible to get to know someone when you're sitting very close to them, in the dark without being able to talk to eachother without getting dirty looks or being told to "Shhhh". I'm pretty easy going, but I WILL admit that I genuinely appreciate the thought that goes into planning whatever it might be that we do. Whether something simple or something more elaborate. Being a single mom and responsible for every single decision that has to be made, it's such a nice treat to know that someone cares enough to do the planning and is happy to just let me enjoy the date.