I work a lot so I don't have too much free time, but when I do I enjoy spending time with my family, going out with my friends, a little traveling, or just hanging out at home with my 2 dogs. I love to laugh, and a sense of humor is a must. I'm looking for a man of his word. I'm looking for someone who wants to grow with a woman and establish a relationship based on mutual respect, love, fun, and sexiness. I am extremely down to earth, smart, honest, funny, chill, attractive, straight forward, and kinda sassy so i need a man that's confident and can handle a sharp (but usually playful) tongue. I'm also very independent so I can't do super clingy guys. So if you are someone who still values a human loving connection, lemme know!
Oh, and if you want to message me to insult me, say something mean, or talk sh*t for whatever reason; don't waste your time because I couldn't care less about your opinion. And for your own sake, grow up, have some dignity, learn how to speak to a woman, and find another avenue to validate your manhood. Anyone else..xox
Oh, and just because a black guy has his hand around me in a photo does not mean that I only date black guys. Gimme a break people, we are not in the 50's. I love all men. If you are confident and I find you attractive, it doesn't matter if you are white, black, latin, middle eastern, mixed, whatever.
I'm not trying to be mean, and I'm sure there are lots of great guys that don't meet these requirements, but PLEASE DO NOT message me if:
...the only thing you can think of saying is "hi". I don't care how hot you are.
...you're a liar or pretentious.
...you don't know what pretentious means.
...you are an "actor".
...you are looking for an easy lay. Or let me put that in man terms.."looking for a good time with no drama." I hate to break it to you gentlemen, but part of being in, and working at a relationship with a woman involves the bad times. Don't get me wrong, I hate fighting and rarely do with someone I'm involved with, but no one is perfect including myself so there are times, (preferably as few as possible of course) when things are not all peaches and cream.
...your sexuality has been questioned by your peers. Ever.
...you are under 5'10
...you are lying about your age on here. Seriously? Why would a man lie about his age?
...you don't like dogs.
...you refer to yourself, in your profile or otherwise, as "Mr. Right", "a catch", or "the total package."
Finally, I appreciate anyone who takes the time in sending me a message and I'm flattered, but if you don't receive a response, unfortunately I am not interested..or you totally ignored my profile. So with that said, I'm sorry if I don't write back.
Preferably something fun, random, spontaneous... but drinks, dinner, dancing, maybe a movie all work too. I'm pretty basic and open.