Nicky's Blog on POF...( Yes, please feel free to send the " negative " comments ... Just makes it easier for me to Filter !!!!
If you are married or attached and you are working up in Fort Mac ... And you on this site... Pretending to be single .. So you can have a little fun on the side ... Do me a favour ? Stay away from me ! I'm not suspicious ... Or vengeful ... I'm not stupid ! Just like to be open and honest and expect other people are doing the same ...
So do not ... Ruin that for me ! I do not want to become suspicious ... And negative ... And require therapy to understand how I was duped !
I'm looking for friends ... End of story ...
Aug 30 :
I just got asked what I'm looking for in man ???
What kind of question is that ? I'm here looking for friends ? Doesn't really matter ?
Don't think qualities would change if I were looking for a relationship ?
2) not too opinionated but have values ( please oh please know the difference )
3) like animals ... Telling me you like all animals ... Except cats ??? Ok well ..that would be like liking 80% humans and not liking high maintenance women ? I have this theory ... That we can all get along ?
4) not looking for mom
5) have a 3 digit IQ ... Yes we are all idiots and prone to acts of stupidity ... But I want to be fascinated by someone else's thoughts ...
6) have ability to change mind ... Unless you are saving a child or an animal ... There shouldn't be too many reasons to stand your ground ! If you still hate broccoli into your mid forties ... Seriously ... Try again ?
7) I'm not entertainment till you get out of camp ( talking to me cause you are stuck ... and bored ...I know you are doing it ....lol )
1) you don't want someone in you life ... That is going to pretend they accept all of you ... But 6 months later is asking you to give up stuff ...
I can say ... I am not going to do that ... If you drink ... Hang out at the casino ... Have 10 dogs ...I'm not going to get you into rehab and find homes for dogs ...
Not hoping you'll change .... .. So don't expect I will either !
Aug 24: It's been awhile since my last update ... The journey of discovery continues ! Been up to see the buffalo about 7 times ... And so far have not seen them !!!
So I have been asked ... Met 8 guys from POF in the 4 months I have been here .. So thought I would share my experiences .. Without using user names or real names ... Just my nicknames for them !
1) Jerk : well I had been texting him back and forth for a bit ... Lighthearted , funny ...
Well one night he was out having a good time at a bar, so he was texting me and asked me to join him ... Well I was with a friend at the time ... And he said bring her too !!! So thought about it ... And said what the hell !!! So we changed and went ... It was probably around 11 pm ... So arrived ... Had a drink ( the place was full of ... Teens ! Chatted a bit ... Then he wandered off ... And never returned !!!! Ok thought it was sort of funny ... Anyway friend and I decided to go to the casino ... And thought I would send him a text ... Nothing too nasty ... Only to discover I had been blocked by phone ... And he had already put me on ignore on POF !!!! Lol .... Seriously ??? You thought I would stalk and harass you ??? What a pathetic loser !!! And have recently seen him on here again ....
2) Surveyor dude : :) He lives in Edmonton, travels a lot ... And have not seen or spoken to him in 3 months .... But I still get a "Good Morning" every day !!! ...what a sweetheart !
3) Irish Guy : I started chatting with him before I moved here .... Back in March !... He's Irish ... I'm British ... Very cool accent ! Still talk to him as well ....
4) Uptight Guy : actually the upside of this one , I got my first motorcycle ride in 20 + yrs ... Other than that .... Got very cold treatment next day ... And that was that !
5) I'm too good : ok this one big mistake ... Think I just wanted another motorcycle ride ! He was just way better than me ... And I actually paid for his coffee ...
6) Winnipeg dude : nice enough ...but the conversation was strained ! 1st meeting at Brewbakers ...
7 ) Newfie 1: Kept buying drinks ... To the point he was telling me I would have to drive him and his car back to his place ...( uhhh no ) While trying to get me drunk ... ( I just couldn't keep up ) second and last time I meet anyone at Brewbakers !
8) Newfie 2 : Huge HUGE mistake !!!!!!
Some kind of personslity disorder that made him run hot/cold ... Yes yes ... I ignored the warning signs ... shoot me now !
9)Racing Dude ; Pleasant ... polite ...smarter than me ... Great smile ....And his pics on POF ... Well no justice there ... Very attractive ... But out of my league
July 2: Long month ... And I'm not even sure what day it is ...it's summer and it's just passing me by ! What the hell do people do out here ?????
June 3 : Well ... Not sure what you are talking about ... Instantaneous sparks flying on first meeting .... Really ? Well doesn't work like that for me ..... Takes me a bit longer ...to see sparks ... Although if you are a twit I'll see that pretty quick!!! So there has to be a mental click for me long before I meet ...and everything is built on that ... And meeting in person ... Just adds to the experience ... Doesn't make or break anything ... We can be friends ? No ? I wasn't thinking much farther ahead than that anyway ... And isn't that where anything starts ...
So please consider this before you waste my time or yours ... I don't like the " next " mentality that occurs in here ... Devalues us all !
May 20: Officially 3 weeks here !!! Damn feels like 3 months ... Although not quite used to my fellow drivers ... Did anyone see Ice Road Truckers ... When they were in India ??? Yes wel that is what this feels like !! I really feel like they need to build ... Well the equivalent of the Autobahn ... Encircling the city ... No a speed limit .. Would be a great stress reliever!!!!
May 18: almost 3 weeks here ... And I have only filled up the gas tank once !!! Amazing !!! I used to have a 130 km round trip commute every day !
May 17: Really wish I could share all the POF experiences I have had since arriving here...and then ... Perhaps not ? So the women are called Golddiggers ... And the men are just ... After... Ok so fill in those blanks ! ... so in the end ... I can tell you ... That it's so damn confusing .... But getting the feeling that even I'm having the " trust " issues ... So that in the end it actually becomes a self fufilling prophesy ??? ...
Date ??? Well .... Really hate that word ... As it seems more like "interview" and I hate that word too!!!
Hmmm don't believe in instant attraction ... Just don't ... There is so much more to be determined than can be in a couple of hours! ( regardless of how much $$ you make or how your a** looks ) ;)
If you can make me laugh ... Bonus points !!!
Bored ... Another word I can't stand ... If you get bored ... Well you can't be too inspiring ...