Nicky's Blog on POF...( Yes, please feel free to send the " negative " comments ... Just makes it easier for me to Filter !!!
July 2: Long month ... And I'm not even sure what day it is ...it's summer and it's just passing me by ! What the hell do people do out here ?????
June 3 : Well ... Not sure what you are talking about ... Instantaneous sparks flying on first meeting .... Really ? Well doesn't work like that for me ..... Takes me a bit longer ...to see sparks ... Although if you are a twit I'll see that pretty quick!!! So there has to be a mental click for me long before I meet ...and everything is built on that ... And meeting in person ... Just adds to the experience ... Doesn't make or break anything ... We can be friends ? No ? I wasn't thinking much farther ahead than that anyway ... And isn't that where anything starts ...
So please consider this before you waste my time or yours ... I don't like the " next " mentality that occurs in here ... Devalues us all !
May 20: Officially 3 weeks here !!! Damn feels like 3 months ... Although not quite used to my fellow drivers ... Did anyone see Ice Road Truckers ... When they were in India ??? Yes wel that is what this feels like !! I really feel like they need to build ... Well the equivalent of the Autobahn ... Encircling the city ... No a speed limit .. Would be a great stress reliever!!!!
May 18: almost 3 weeks here ... And I have only filled up the gas tank once !!! Amazing !!! I used to have a 130 km round trip commute every day !
May 17: Really wish I could share all the POF experiences I have had since arriving here...and then ... Perhaps not ? So the women are called Golddiggers ... And the men are just ... After... Ok so fill in those blanks ! ... so in the end ... I can tell you ... That it's so damn confusing .... But getting the feeling that even I'm having the " trust " issues ... So that in the end it actually becomes a self fufilling prophesy ??? ...
Just arrived in town ...... As of today .... It is 9 days ( May 8 2014 )
Wow ... What an interesting place ... This metropolis in the middle of nowhere!
That actually has a rush hour !
Overcrowding comparable to China !
The line ups everywhere. !
The speed bumps in parking lots
The cracked windshield I got coming into town ( that initiated me. , as seems 75% of the vehicles have them... Which explains the stands on the side of the road offering windshield repair ).
The small full parking lots ..
.The way people consider Timberlea far!!!!
The pick up trucks everywhere !
The DIRTY pick up trucks everywhere. !
The signs in the bank and crappy tire that say " verbal abuse will not be tolerated"
The sign outside Riverside Mall that you can't Loiter or spit ??? ( you can't spit ??? People loiter and spit ???)
Oh yeah ... Let's not forget the Prices !!!! Even for gas ????
Wow ... Someone was kind enough to remind me of the housing and rental prices .... Fort Mac ... The Beverly Hills of the North !
Am I bashing Fort Mac .... No... Just from Montreal ... And I thought we had the worst roads in Canada !!! Apparently not !!! ( when are they going to paint the lines on the roads ... I don't like battling with a semi for space!!!!
Oh yes on a darker note ... WTH is with all the men here ...no conversation ... Just requests for sexual favours??? ( it's like living a cut scene from the movie Deliverance !!) Or ... Being in half way house for men getting out of prison that need integrating back into society!!
I plan on living here a few years. ... So not bashing the place I'm choosing to live ! .... But sharing my observations from the last 9 days ... Curious to see what's next!!!
Date ??? Well .... Really hate that word ... As it seems more like "interview" and I hate that word too!!!
Hmmm don't believe in instant attraction ... Just don't ... There is so much more to be determined than can be in a couple of hours! ( regardless of how much $$ you make or how your a** looks ) ;)
If you can make me laugh ... Bonus points !!!
Bored ... Another word I can't stand ... If you get bored ... Well you can't be too inspiring ...