First off.... my profile might sound like I am a ****. But I really am not. I just get tired of some of the same old things. LOL And the things that I have put on here, have actually came up, so in the hopes of repeating the same thing over and over, I have chosen to put it on here.
I'm a single mom. One child is still at home. He's 9. So, planning is essential.
And it is always hard to write about yourself. Why? Because honestly, not everyone will see you as you see yourself. Where you might think you are being reserved and shy, it might come off to others as egotistical. It is always best that people make their own decision about you.
I don't want endless emails. I actually WANT to meet someone. But I am not going to jump in bed with you on the first meeting either. Sometimes not even the second or third.
I am just looking for someone who is respectful and considerate. I just want to have a little fun with! Are you that one?
Please be respectful of both you and I, and don't send just a one or two word message. Examples are.... yum, cute, hot, hey sexy, etc... Please take the time to send me an actual message. Should you not take that time, then I shall not take the time to respond. Also, PLEASE have your profile filled out. This.... Ask and I shall tell... does NOT work for me. My profile is filled out, so yours should be too. Thank you :)
"A girl without curves is like a road without corners. You get where you're going quickly - but it's boring as hell!!
I am a fun loving BBW. I am 44 years old.
I like to do a wide variety of things...
I am pretty laid back and non-judgmental. But that does not mean that I will allow you to walk all over me. :)
I am looking for friends, above all. If you can't be friends with someone, then you certainly can't have any kind of relationship..... not even a "sexual" But with that being said, I do not, NOT, want a purely sexual relationship.
I would like to meet people who have some of the same interests as I do. And the same values. I know that opposites attract, but you need to have some things in common.
I view profiles all the time. I will rarely send you the first message. Unless I have gotten a notification that you want to meet me. So, if I have viewed your profile and you view mine back and are interested, let me know :)
I would like to add, I do NOT play on the first date. I don't kiss either. The most you will get is a hug on the first date. Or meeting. :)
I do like to go out with my friends, when I can. And yes, sometimes on the weekend we will go out as well, if I don't have anything else to do. Do I go to the clubs? Very rarely. I can't even tell you the last time I was at a club. I do tend to be busy from time to time in my life. However, I do and will make time, to go out, with the right person. And not everyone that will message me, will be the right person. :) And I do go out on Friday and/or Saturday to a local Karaoke place that I have been going to for several years now. Always looking for people to go with me too! :)
I have fourteen tattoo's.... and want more. :) So, if ink bother's you.. best you keep on movin!
Please, have a picture on your profile. I have several on mine. If you do not have one on your profile, please be prepared to email me one. And if you can not do that, or do not want to do that, then please, do not waste my time or yours.
I am not going to be your "experiment", "Fetish", "Guinea Pig", "etc" If you have never been with a BBW, dating or other wise, and "it might be something you want to try, then I am not the one for you."
Please be a non-smoker. I am highly allergic to smoke, and a lot of times, even with the residue on your clothing, it will irritate me. *sigh* Sorry.
Please... please PLEASE have a picture available. You have seen me, it is only fair that I get to see you. :)
Do not ask for my phone number within the first day of messaging me. You won't get it. Do not give me yours, I won't use it.
And again, not to sound judgmental or rude, but if you can not use proper punctuation and capitalization, then don't waste our time. Yours or mine. It's the teacher in me, sorry. I also do not go for the "ghetto talk" You spell probably just like that.. not prolly. If this is how you talk in your day to day dealings, then you are simply not the one for me. Again, it's that teacher in me.
In my pictures, you will find that they are all recent. Within a few months:) Please have the same. Also, you will see a picture of me and my best friend, Carol, who is also on this site. :) We share clothes, food, friends, houses... but we don't share our men. :) Just an FYI!
And this one should also be a little common sense... but should we meet, and you decide that I am not the one for you, then simply be honest and say so. Don't make up excuses. Don't say you will call, and then never do. Or won't answer if I call you or text you. Just simply say... I am sorry, I don't think this will work. I am a big girl and I can handle it. :) And remember, the truth always comes out, eventually. :)
**UPDATE 11/11/13** On October 30, 2013 I had an accident in my truck. It's totaled. So, as of this moment, I do not have a vehicle. So, please take that into consideration.