Some describe me as dorky, eccentric and energetic; others may say I can be a little inappropriate, unpredictable and reserved; many say I am loving, honest, generous, and a genuine person. I feel I am a great guy with honorable qualities, fears, insecurities and strengths; which makes me human. What I can assure you is that I am always willing to see my part and do my best to make things right.
I tend to not gravitate towards the"norm" for a gay man. Meaning: I do not drink, do I use drugs, have not been to a gay bar/club in 6 years; having random hook-ups are not considered enjoyable to me anymore. Still, my life is still full, fun, loving and loaded with laughs.
Today, I don't have to keep secrets. I have learned and believe that we are only as sick as our secrets.
My sexual truth today: I'm not able to find a sexual label for myself; meaning, I do not consider myself to be a Top or a Bottom nor would I exclaim I'm Versatile since I do not enjoy anal sex. I enjoy the oral and foreplay aspects of sex and for some reason this is a deal breaker for many men; which is sad to me.
Thank you for reading my profile and hopefully you're able to relate with some or more. I'm looking forward to reading your message.
I like to use the first date as a "meet-and-greet"; a good conversation over a cup of coffee in a comfortable atmosphere is totally ideal, in my opinion. Yet, I am not opposed to a tasty, friendly lunch/dinner. Great conversation and honesty first are most important.