Everyone is entitled to an opinion but no one is entitled to have anyone else agree with said opinion....I find that in the majority of circumstances it is best to keep ones opinions to oneself. With that in mind....
I am interested in hearing from reasonably intelligent individuals, who are both close to me in proximity and age. I strongly prefer someone with a dry sense of humour and a plan for life.
I am NOT interested in casual sex and can spot from a thousand paces those who are just window shopping for a different hole to ****. There is many a girl on here who may be up for that but I am not she. Sex is a very important part of a healthy relationship but there has to be more than that. As such, I am doing perfectly well alone, a partner would and should be merely icing on the cake. BTW If spicy language offends you turn back now. People who swear are more honest apparently...I read that online so it must be true;).
I am very much a realist ( optimists see it as pessimism, whereas I see optimists as having their head up their own a***). All about perspective I suppose..
I am fairly logical with occasional bouts of silliness. I am of above average intelligence but by no means a genius.
I battle daily with my wish to live to a ripe old age and my love of all the things that are bad for me but taste delicious. I am not very fit and not thin. I will need you to hide your candy from me and hold my hand while we run;)
I suffer from ADHD, it is a miracle I get out of the house with pants on in the morning, so if ditsy chicks piss you off, you should avoid me like the plague. I cope by writing copious list and generally flying by the seat of my pants to get sh*tdone. My friends think I am pretty good at the getting done of shit, but then...they do not live with me....It drove my ex husband nuts but he put up with me for 27 years and we are still friends.
I am more in the direction of the artistic, crafty, musical type of person with no startling talent in any of those things in particular.
I tend to be agreeable except when I am not.
I like to go out but I like to stay in more often .
I like to watch a movie, sci fi, comedy and drama preferably and sometimes I don't.
Routine is akin to boredom for me.
I like travelling but find the planning stressful.
I love most music except rap but am happy with silence to .
I have strong opinions but am open to changing them given sufficient evidence.
No one ever changed their mind just because someone else told them they were wrong....
Make of all that what you will:)
Hmm, probably coffee, somewhere public just to check you out, to make sure you are relatively sane and as non axe murderer-like as possible..... that your head doesn't zip up the back. etc:).