Maybe this is just me, but because my priorities have changed since I've gotten older, I don't want to be sort of dating someone. I don't want to be kind of hanging out with someone. I don't want to suppress a lot of energy hiding my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved.
If you are interested in putting in the time to get to know me, and only me, then please let me know. However, if you are a professional online dater who can't wait to move on or talk to the next girl who hits your inbox, then please pass me by. I am not someone who can multi-task in the getting to know someone department. I prefer to focus on 1 person only. If this is not you, that's okay. Just please do not respond.
I am looking for someone who is real. Someone who can talk to my heart as well as my head. I am not interested in a long drawn out e-mail or phone exchange. I want to meet and see if there is any chemistry. If not, then we haven't wasted a lot of time for either one of us. I am open to all ethnicities.
A little bit about me. I am kind enough and thoughtful enough to be a great friend and partner. I have no need to be desperate. I can find a man to sleep with, just like most women - there's always someone that will sleep with you - if that's what you're looking for. Ultimately, I want someone who will share my goals and my dreams, and help me celebrate my accomplishments? Someone who'll provide the incentive to look for balance when I am working too hard? Who'll listen and care, when I'm afraid (you can't show it to the rest of the world). Someone who will listen to the crazy ideas I have, that I can't share except with someone I trust intimately? Like right now, as I watch the news again alone, I question, do I settle for company or continue to search for someone that I can enjoy. I say I don't settle for anything else why start now ! ! !