Im gonna start first saying if ur married or separated for any length of time just skip over me.my name is Connie. I'm 5ft 2in,with shoes very petite.as from the photos u c in my profile, besides being petite and thin, i do have curves. Since I had my profile hidden and added new photos I'm sorry to say I will have to change them yet again due to major weight loss so shortly I will hide myself again. i am an easy outgoing woman, Im down to earth but not laid back. one who is honest,caring and likes a man to feel comfortable. Iam a toucher. when i touch i like the same in return. i tend to be a sexual and sensual woman. im passionate a nd romantic. candles, soft music(not mushy), soft smell of incense, and a glass of wine just sets the mood. i throw off an aura that u have to meet me to understand. i want a man that loves to kiss because i do that alot. i want to make a man say " wow", shes with me and im happy to be by her side.I like to go out of my way to do something special to let the man know im thinking about him when hes not around, 2 bring out that smile. could be just a simple text or anything that im thinking of at the moment.im a half glass full type of woman. I am drama free and i prefer the man 2 be the same way but i know there is times when it cant be helped.im not into any head games and i dont play them. i like flirting with the man im with and i personally like it when a man flirts with me. i think most men like their women to be that way. im not a jealous person and hope the same from my partner, i have to find the word (respect)the other person though. u have 2 really be secure around me. ive been told that im out of their league. my wild side turns men away sometimes.i can be a open minded woman and very easy to get along with. i like all types of music except for rap,hip-hop, country, classical, and head banging heavy metal. i do like classic rock but i do tend to listen to modern top 40. I Heart radio is my favorite app on my iphone because music is always at ur fingertips.if the man listens to the type of music i dont prefer, then i will listen to it anyway though i might be a little restless until the song is over.
Most of the photos seem to get guys irritated when it something they can't be like but i like any man that catches my attention. i just happen to Like a man with long black hair. i ypes of food. i tend to lean towards fillet steak and lobster. cant do sushi. i do like days cooking on the grill even though im not good at it. i like it when the man does it. seems like men like their barbecue 2 turn out perfect. i dont cook much at all and would probably would need a recipe. my man doesnt have 2 cook either. thats what eating out is for.i even like going out for just for a good old hamburger and fries. i prefer that the man to have adult children or no children nor will i bare any. I've raised my children into great adults. It's me time now..sometimes i like doing things at the spur of the moment but as always,i can be a pre-planner if needed. all my kids are over 18 and have their own lives and out of the house. gives me time to find a special someone to share my life with. i do like a family man and one that can also take time out of their busy schedule to bring in a special one and is ready for anything that may happen in a relationship.i dont think seeing someone 4 hrs a month to be considered any type of dating. i demand more time than that and if its not possible then I'm not for u.a financel secure professional would be a plus. one that can be a people person and can hold a conversation with just about anyone. communication is a plus in a relationship and cant forget the chemistry. start out as friends and see what develops.i DO NOT cheat or lie. im disease free and i expect the same with my partner. a man who likes to joke and laugh and have a good time. believe me, i do have a sense of humor and i really like it if the man has the appeal 2 make me laugh.im looking for a man who wants my attention and can keep it one that also willing to give it. one that can handle a strong woman. I'm confident and comfortable in my own skin..i tend 2 be an assertive woman. i try to make life more interesting for my friends and who i work with. im energetic and warm. im fun and spontaneous but not impulsive. i try 2 make the night as comfortable as i can. i like just being myself around someone.please dont ask me to change my clothes. im just being myself. im a non-smoker but its fine for the man to smoke as long as he respects me and keeps it away from me. i know there can be times where it could be impossible and i do understand that.im just not interested when a man always has to have a cig in their hand all the time. i can be comfortable wearing formal clothes down to blue jeans and a t-shirt.i have always been a independent, hardworking woman who has good intentions. i am from alabama so im a country girl at heart and i do have a southern accent. its not so bad to where u would have 2 laugh and think that i came from an area that never gets sunshine. seems like everyone likes to camp. i am a resort type of camper i do not fish and i will not hunt for any type of game.i do not swim for fear of deep water. i will not bungie off a bridge but white water rafting was pretty awesome.i am attracted to active spontaneous men. a man that has an athletic or average build. must take care of themselves. Dresses with class when headed out for the evening.height and weight proportioned, dark brown or black hair. im not compatable with blondes or red hair. i would perfer an man with a head full of hair.my age range would be 37 to 55. i would like someone taller that me because when i wear heels, i want to look up, not eye to eye. maybe 5'9 or more taller.accents r awesome and im a sucker for them. please have an up 2 date photo.if u do not have photo, more than likely i will not respond. i dont mean 2 come off 2 strong but men sometimes do not tell how they really r or look the same. I'm sorry if u don't meet my criteria but every one is attracted to some type. if u think we have things in common, please send me an message.FYI...i dont do one night stands, so if thats what ur looking for, just pass me on and i do not send personal photos. There has to be a match for me out there. Just give it a try.one more thing- I don't like overalls. Reminds me of my grandparents.lose all the hats in the photos. Can't c ur face. It's hidden. If u have any tjype of anger problem then pass me on. Good luck fishing! If u have a comment about my profile that is uncalled for through a message needs to keep it to urself for u will be blocked.i put a photo of my best friend and he's Italianlook like that then u can win me over.
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all kinds of dates r ok with me. but.....when its a first time....it needs to be a night to remember.it can be just a simple nite but the memory will always be there. usually u can find me jhanging around central west end, soulard, landing, the loop and any other sidewalk cafe, even fast eddies.im a sucker for outdoor patios weather permitted.i can also do the meet and greet when necessary. depends on the situation. i just want each person to be relaxed in an atmosphere where is the most comfortable for each other. most look for an escape route just in case.... i personally havent had anyone do that to me before.Update....if ur a non-drinker and u tell me that u don't mind if I have a drink,next date don't call me an alcoholic, tell me I'm killing myself and go 2 AA meetings 2 overcome that.I will NOT be a FWB so DONT ask or assume. This site doesn't give u a certain mile readius so I try to stay local but if I'm interested, ill overcome that when or if it arises.