I consider myself a "nice guy" and i dont think its true that they finish last. I have my life together in just about every way possible. I think im ready to find the right woman and start working towards building a real relationship. The reason i joined this site is because i have a hectic schedule and it can be hard to find time to go out and meet someone new, and i've learned that im not going to find the kind of girl im looking for in the bar or club.
Im really laid back, i typically dont make plans i just like to let life happen. If im not working, then i like to hit the gym, cook, and do anything outdoors. I can play any sport out there, i might not be a pro but im not gonna be the guy on the sidelines either. I love to be out on the water in the summer. I love to open myself up to trying new things, if your closed minded or just like to play it safe with the ussual then were not meant to be together. New food, music art, places, or just any kind of new experiences.
Since i grew up in the mid 90's my music tastes are pretty wide ranged. I like everything really, well not gangsta rap, but everything from country to opera. It all depends on my mood i guess. If im cleaning the house for an hour or so, i throw on a mixed playlist and crank it up. You might hear anything from Morrissey to Madonna, or Wyclef to West side story. I just cant stand turning on 95.5 and listening to all the top 40 garbage i hear in the clubs, or in the gym.
Oh yeah, i promise you i'm not some jerk that you typically run into at say, a club. I know how to treat people with respect and compassion. I really cant stand drama. Im looking for a woman who has her life together, has a job or is going to school for a career, and who has a bubbly outgoing personality. Im really turned off by a woman who has issues with jealousy, or is too needy, and controlling.
Im a good guy, if you show me love and respect then i will show you the same. I treat a girlfriend like a princess and pamper her with attention and affection. If you like the sound of that, send me a message if i havent already sent you one and lets set up that first date.
I tried a movie before, but have found that you dont really get to know a person well enough (sitting quietly watching a movie). I think a first date should be something fun but simple, like getting a drink at a bar or cofee at the local beanery. It could even be something quick, like splitting an appitizer, that way in 20-25 mins you both have invested, you can make a decision to go your seperate ways or continue the date lol (sometimes thats all it takes to "just know"). Really a first date is my way of finding out some of the true basics about someone and how comfortable we can be around each other.