I like to relax and enjoy myself in whatever I am doing. I work very hard during the week and need down time on the weekends. I am looking for someone to relax with. Just holding hands and smiling - because I am with someone special - makes me happy.
I would like to find a man that is comfortable with who he is and what he wants in life. I think you have to enjoy your own company before you can enjoy being with someone else. Someone who is content and can just smile because of who they are.
I have a great job and I have money to go on vacations and day trips and to buy pretty much whatever I really want (within reason - the 2nd home in Bora Bora is a few paychecks away) and no, I don't want to be your sugar momma.
I guess I am giving up on finding true love - whatever that means. I really just want a friend. Someone to confide in and to do things with - spend time with. I have spent most of my life concentrating on my work and I find that life is passing me by. I never had kids - been too busy. All of my friends are moving out of NYS (like most people) so if you are bored and want to go to the movies or try a hike in the Adirondacks send me an email. No pressure. I won't ask you to marry me after the first "date" or anything.
Good luck on here.