I'm just a regular guy. Beer, BBQ, hanging out and socializing. I like live concerts, 80's hair bands, heavy metal, modern rock, etc... but, music means less to me as I get older. When I was younger, I was a drummer in a metal band, but, that was years ago. I have worked in Oil for quite a while, and have been fortunate enough to travel and live in almost every country on Earth. I have a lot of good stories and pics. I was married for 15 years, divorced for 8, and have traveled the world, and returned home, looking for some kind of semi-normal life. I'm not aggressive, I don't like confrontation, and I do not want a woman that feels like it is ok to scream and cuss fight with me. I am very mellow and laid back, and want the same.
So... Let me just throw it all out there. I'm 45 years old... I am beyond the games and being a player, and just trying to sleep with someone. I am legitimately looking for long-term... marriage, house, flea market on the week-end... all of that good stuff. I want a kind, loyal, loyal, loyal, loyal woman. I'm divorced because she was cheating.... and i will not forgive that. We were married 15 years, and i filed the next morning after I caught her. So... I'm being up front about that... I am NOT a control freak, I DO NOT get jealous. You are a grown woman, go where you want, do what you want, you don't have to ask my permission to do anything, and i can't stop you from doing anything that you want to do. I wouldn't even try.
I'm looking for my best friend. Someone that has my back even when i am wrong. A woman that will stand there and fight for me, and wait till we get home to tell me I was wrong, and it was all my fault. LOYALTY.... Because that is exactly what i offer.
Also---- Bonus points if you are a Nurse!!! I don't know why, I just always wanted to be with a Nurse... LVN or RN... but, that is not an absolute. I am new to Odessa/Midland area... don't know the area at all, restaurants, etc.... so, I will need your help planning a meeting or date. Like i said earlier, I am very serious about finding someone, so, if i message you, it is because I am attracted to you, and i see long-term potential. S*x is great, we all like it, but, I have been doing the meaningless, empty, one night stand for years. I was much happier when i was married, and with someone i really loved, so, that is what I am all about now.---- Not that I am willing to take just anyone... I'm not... If I have to stay single the rest of my life, I will... I'm fun, and funny, and I make a great living. I bring something to the table, and i will not "Settle". So, please, if you are a feminist, a radical liberal, a Hillary supporter, a BLM supporter, or all around "Lefty", don't bother, it won't work out... I am college educated, with an I.Q. of 163, and i will argue politics with you till I turn you into a Republican, or till I just can't stand to look at you anymore.
Ok, I have rambled enough, and probably made you scared.... but, i am not crazy, not a psycho, have NEVER hit a woman, nor would I (Even Rosie O'Donnell) I'm an onion--- layers---- but, I am fun, and silly, and kinda geeky. I'm a tech--- field Engineer in Oil... playing with electronics, electricity, computers, power generation, etc... I go fix the rigs, when they break down. My job leads me all over the world, but, if i like you, you and your happiness will come first. (as long as it doesn't get me fired).