lairdp1971: Caution---Trump Supporter and gun owner.
Smokes Often with Average body type
Odessa, Texas
45 year old Male, 6' 1" (185cm), Baptist
Caucasian, Gemini
lairdp1971 wants to find someone to marry.
Some college

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Me

I'm just a regular guy. Beer, BBQ, hanging out and socializing. I like live concerts, 80's hair bands, heavy metal, modern rock, etc... but, music means less to me as I get older. When I was younger, I was a drummer in a metal band, but, that was years ago. I have worked in Oil for quite a while, and have been fortunate enough to travel and live in almost every country on Earth. I have a lot of good stories and pics. I was married for 15 years, divorced for 8, and have traveled the world, and returned home, looking for some kind of semi-normal life. I'm not aggressive, I don't like confrontation, and I do not want a woman that feels like it is ok to scream and cuss fight with me. I am very mellow and laid back, and want the same.
So... Let me just throw it all out there. I'm 45 years old... I am beyond the games and being a player, and just trying to sleep with someone. I am legitimately looking for long-term... marriage, house, flea market on the week-end... all of that good stuff. I want a kind, loyal, loyal, loyal, loyal woman. I'm divorced because she was cheating.... and i will not forgive that. We were married 15 years, and i filed the next morning after I caught her. So... I'm being up front about that... I am NOT a control freak, I DO NOT get jealous. You are a grown woman, go where you want, do what you want, you don't have to ask my permission to do anything, and i can't stop you from doing anything that you want to do. I wouldn't even try.
I'm looking for my best friend. Someone that has my back even when i am wrong. A woman that will stand there and fight for me, and wait till we get home to tell me I was wrong, and it was all my fault. LOYALTY.... Because that is exactly what i offer.
Also---- Bonus points if you are a Nurse!!! I don't know why, I just always wanted to be with a Nurse... LVN or RN... but, that is not an absolute. I am new to Odessa/Midland area... don't know the area at all, restaurants, etc.... so, I will need your help planning a meeting or date. Like i said earlier, I am very serious about finding someone, so, if i message you, it is because I am attracted to you, and i see long-term potential. S*x is great, we all like it, but, I have been doing the meaningless, empty, one night stand for years. I was much happier when i was married, and with someone i really loved, so, that is what I am all about now.---- Not that I am willing to take just anyone... I'm not... If I have to stay single the rest of my life, I will... I'm fun, and funny, and I make a great living. I bring something to the table, and i will not "Settle". So, please, if you are a feminist, a radical liberal, a Hillary supporter, a BLM supporter, or all around "Lefty", don't bother, it won't work out... I am college educated, with an I.Q. of 163, and i will argue politics with you till I turn you into a Republican, or till I just can't stand to look at you anymore.
Ok, I have rambled enough, and probably made you scared.... but, i am not crazy, not a psycho, have NEVER hit a woman, nor would I (Even Rosie O'Donnell) I'm an onion--- layers---- but, I am fun, and silly, and kinda geeky. I'm a tech--- field Engineer in Oil... playing with electronics, electricity, computers, power generation, etc... I go fix the rigs, when they break down. My job leads me all over the world, but, if i like you, you and your happiness will come first. (as long as it doesn't get me fired).

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Gun Range??? Hole in the wall bar, Olive Garden.... whatever makes you comfortable... I can go from shorts and flip-flops, to a Tuxedo at the Opera..I know how to behave myself in any situation....

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