I am short. I am passed chunky. I have made alot of recent changes to my life. Getting a promotion at work. Even though I should be happy that I just got a new car and a new place I am not. After my ex husband I gave someone else the opportunity to show me that men were different. I have been failed and mistreated so please try to understand. I live my life for others. Helping people makes me happy. I am currently very unhappy. Please feel free to judge me since most of you have. I dont want to be your saturday night hook up or at your beckon call. I just want someone who is honest because I can not take anymore lies. This man I gave a chance sent a married womam flowers on valentines and me nothing...not even a massage :( I want to be happy and for me to be happy things have to change. I have to.. If you can not handle your business then I dont need to add to that. Please understand that I believe a man should still open doors pay for dates and show affection/has nothing to do with sex. If you live with mom or dont own a car with no job...please do not send me a message. You have to work hard to get what you want...even if its a cash car thats beat up, you should be proud you own it.