If you're not going to properly message me like I'm a lady, then don't even bother, e.g. I'm not your baby and don't want to hear sexy.
Otherwise, I appreciate when a man messages me first. :-)
In a man I'm looking for: intelligence, empathy, and fun.
I like beer, camping, campfires, four wheeling, floating the river, going to dive bars, shooting at the gun range, teaching, dancing, going out to eat, naps, and watching tv shows.
I love football and am a redskins fan. In what little free time I have, I volunteer for a couple of non-profit organizations.