I would like to start out by saying no one is perfect including myself,but the perfect person is out there for each of us, and it is our onus to find that peson, unfortunatly it's human nature to first judge people on their appearance,so... if you're one of those women who goes to the store wearing those ugly pajama pants you might want to move on to somebody else,because I can't stand that, it's not that hard to throw on a pair of jeans.
I really enjoy being outdoors,and staying fit, (ok I take that back I don't enjoy keeping fit, but I do it because, I live an active lifestyle,and don't want to get all saggy),all my hobbies,and even my job requires me to be outside. I have many goals, all of which I enjoy chasing, accomplishing, and reaching the next. I'm very spontaneous,outgoing,good listener, and not afraid to stand up for what's right, or to jump in with both feet. As far as music goes, to be honest, I usually only listen to it when driving, and don't necessarily have a favorite, I enjoy all of it.
I spend a considerable amount of time with my son,sharing with him the same joys of life that I've come to love. I have a job that I'm very fond of, and work for a great company. I have the house that I wanted,I'm doing what I want to do for a living, and I'm comfortable with who I am, everything I've accomplished in life thus far, and strive for the next. Don't want to sound rude,but if you're lazy,unmotivated,afraid of trying new things, I'm probably not the man for you. I have a lot to offer and willing to share it with the right woman. Those of you women that are just looking for a one nighter,"trust me we get those messages too" have a little self respect find one of those loosers on here...there are lots of them. Sorry about that, but I had to put it in. I'm a gentleman and looking for a lady. So if that's you, send me a message.
I feel that a first date, technically is more of a meeting, first impressions are lasting,so it would have to be colloquial, that way the both of us can be comfortable and relaxed.