jay98jay: looking for good woman
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Brockton, Massachusetts
33 year old Male, 6' 2" (188cm), Non-religious
Hispanic Cancer with Black
jay98jay is looking for a relationship.
Some college
Comic Nerd
management records center

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Second Language Portuguese  

About Me
I'm not a drama person, I grew up in a household full of women, I have 3 sisters that I love dearly.
Nothing makes my blood boil more than hearing scumbags guys mistreating them by lying or cheating on them.
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." that's my motto.


I'm Portuguese/Cape Verdian, I'm a naturalized U.S citizen and I've been living in the United States since I was 15 years.

I survived Brockton High School (a very tough inner city school).
I'm attending Massasoit Community College for a (Computer Science) degree, but I would love to one day add another degree in (Business Administration).
I feel like an official (Business Administration) degree would help me further a better career path in my company and beyond.

Job Situation:
I supervise a large medical records facility, I've worked there for about 11 years.
I oversee four to five employees on a daily basis.
In managing that many people, you need to have strong managerial skills and incredible self discipline.

Financial Situation:
I'm very financially stable, I don't have any credit cards maxed out.
I pay all my bills on time, I have savings account, and a 401k account for almost 10 years.
Friends and family members, tell me "I'm the most financially organized person they ever met."



People say I'm a very good listener, a calm person and it's very hard to rattle me.

Sports; I'm not into sports of any kind.

Movies; At home is the best way to watch movies, but I do enjoy watching blockbuster movies in the big screen.

Traveling; Every weekend I like to try something new like a restaurant, museum, music place any place that I've never been before.

At home; I'm always online after work (Twitter, Youtube, Netflix...) I'm taking (Computer Science) degree I always have to be a head of technology changes. The sad fact is I watch very little Television.

Family; I'm very cozy with other family members, I can quickly change from being a goofball playing with 5 year olds to talking respectful with an older member of my family. I'm always the person calms things down between heated family members.

I'm 6'2 and 250lbs I can be very intimidating looking at times.
I tell people; "trust me I'm just big teddy bear... that can turn into grizzly bear when I have to protect my loved ones"

I like using humor to make people feel at ease with me.


Goals: Buying a house and live in a nice quiet neighborhood, and have my own business.


I'm a terrible cook.

People say I'm too harsh at myself when I fail at something.

I'll admit it, I'm somewhat of geek.