I'm Jason. First off, "wants children" means your's, mine and ours. Not necessarily just to have more children, but to accept more into my life. Second, so many women are not into "games", *News Flash* some of us men aren't either. I'm not taking you on 17 dates dropping a couple of grand to hear, "I think we'd be better off as FRIENDS", I know that after a couple of hours, you should too. And 3, I'm attracted to women smaller than me, don't know why just always felt there should be a proportion to a couple, Not trying to be an ass, just trying to save us both some time. NOW, I'm 36, a self employee general contractor for about 8 years now. I've spent too much time working and haven't been out much so I'm here. Because of my business and drive and ambition, every new face is a potential customer, and any day that there's money to make is a work day. Kinda hinders "dating" but with no one, I see nothing better to do than make money. My house is bought and paid for, as are 2 trucks, the car, my son's blazer, and the boat. None of them are new, but they do what I need them to do and they don't cost me every month. I like to spend intimate time with people close to me doing things we enjoy, don't care much about the rest of the world. I don't do bars, I can drink, shoot pool, play air hockey and dance in my living room without dealing with a bunch of drunken, unpredictable jack asses. Out of 5 serious relationships, I could out cook and out clean 4 of them, so I don't need a mother either. If the woman I'm with wants to work, that's her choice, but her money is her money, I don't need my income supplemented. People closest to me say I'm an ass because I mean what I say and say what I mean. I say I'm just brutally honest, because to not be is a waste of time. My son is almost 16 and we are very tight. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, everything can be a joke, Life's too short. I've had relationships with women younger, same age, and older than me. If you like a man who's into sports or hunting or fishing or fishing or fishing or fishing"guy's night out", I'm not the one for you. My time is to precious as well as the person I'm with and my children, to be wasted on that nonsense.*10/30/2013* I'm starting a second business and will be back and forth between home and Austin, Texas for a few months.
Anything you want sweetie. My first dates are almost always with someone I've talked to a lot and I know already what they enjoy, and since I love grand gestures, I try to take what they like and multiply it by ten so use your imagination....... It's hard to get to know someone in just an hour or two in one particular setting, I like to take a day and do 3 or 4 different things or go different places so we can see how one another handles different situations and reacts to them.
P.S. I think internet dating is bullshit, a bunch of window shoppers looking for someone with every perfect option that they want in a mate. No chance to be attracted to someone's character or personality because we all look at people through human eyes and human eyes are always going to cloud attraction to what's not pretty. *NEWS FLASH* If you haven't hooked up with Mr or Ms Perfect in real life, you aren't going to online either, because there are factors in real life that do not come into play here. Just sayin lol.
Also, on an unrelated note lol, and because I ran out of room upstairs, I was married once. I didn't list my relationship status as divorced because it was only for 3 years and almost 15 years ago when I got divorced. If I should change that, let me know please as I am not real good at social etiquette LMAO.