Well comin back to ab for the spring n summer again oh how i missed work lol not!
Ok apparently i have no choice but to add this.. If u say hi and dont have a picture posted. I expect one within the next 2 msgs . Cmon seriously i dont care if your a spy or a nun, who wants to invest a lot of time into typing to someone content to hide in obscurity on a visual dating site
If i added u as a fave an your not interested... just unadd/delete.also im not interested in becomming your long trrm text buddy, im old fashioned n like to actually TALK or even meet n chat in the REAL WORLD. Wtf is with these quacks n thier nee world of typed conversations anyhow? Holy crap my fingers hurt after a modern conversation !!
One observation. Women posting pics of their tits hanging or spewing forth from their way to tight t top saying they are looking for men with class or morals really oughta take a course in class first.
I honestly do try and respond to everyone regardless of interest, however there will happen to b the ones where , well cmon we all know the ones theres just no way thAt thered be any interest n really ya just dont wanna say anything
I better say upfront that im not into dating bbws or really giant gals. Not that i think im better or above them i just couldnt date someone bigger than me , call it a phobia
They say good things come to he who waits , however he who holds his breath to long dies of asphyxiation.
anyone know how long your spose to wait for this "good thing" to come? they all seem like good things at the start but give em a few months n they seem to evolve into something else lol
First off, if your married or separated or in a relationship..... im not interested
I live in gravelburg sk fall/winter and I work in alberta spring/summer lookin to meet ppl for coffee n yacks maybe to create lasting friendships who knows maybe ill kidnap a gal to take home lol . if u dont want to actually meet, move on to someone else .
I own my own home no mortgage and my own vehicles no payments and no debt. Not lookin for anyone elses money or support . Im independant , like to travel and see new things.
I am really tired of being on here as they say looking to find someone compatible, i dont have that high of expectations, im down to earth n easy to talk to so take a chance,
im looking to meet as friends first, no other expectations AT ALL. if things progress then it will be on a mutual basis only. Im good with just being friends if thats all u want as well, can never have to many people to talk to
-im not a 6 pack toting hardbody with buns you could temper steel on . im not 21 anymore. now im the comfy model . with several hairs that dont belong and some extra weight waiting to be downgraded . and that is kind of the type of girl im looking for . everyone likes a hug now n then and pda is welcome as i like to hold hands as much as the next person
i like the odd drink n every blue moon ill tie one on, but if u need to get sloshed every wk or 3 times a week then u have problems im not prepared to council you for. i have morals, and ill not force mine on u if you dont force yours on me, i also dont do religious holidays
im only looking for one special gal that will be able to put up with me ,im not into quantity , just quality
*if i send you a flattering message, it isnt to butter you up , its because its true. so dont take it to mean anything more than a compliment,
I dont play that hard as im gettin to old lol but i do like to b active and well i wont risk life or limb for fun .no i dont wanna skydive or bunjee jump but i will watch others do it from a safe vantage point on the ground out of the line of fire.i dont expect u to b perfect as well even though i know im close im not exactly perfect either.
in the interest of honesty im 210 lbs so im like 20-25 lbs over what my ideal weight would b
i like kids and im a pretty straight arrow type of guy,
the kind of woman i want? well i thought i knew what kind of woman i wanted and i must say ive met some that truly have fit the bill,and some that havent as well. honesty communication, sense of adventure,romantic, seductive, hard working, energetic,must want long term or marriage minded as im not here to just get a quick roll in the hay.must be compassionate, love animals and children, financially secure and above all else must be able to look me in the eye as they talk to me and be open to talking about themselves freely . as i try to be as open as possible i expect it in return, i wont judge someone on their past or the steps in life theyve taken to get to this place in their lives.
im not looking for someone who is perfectly fit and a barbie doll, lord knows im not the fittest person around.i dont judge people on their appearance, and i have no problem at all forming friendships with people im not sexually attracted to , (just so you know thats not what im all about)
### I must say im not into OBESE or BBW. So if you are planning to surprise me , lets not make that the surprise ok. If u cant be upfront and honest about size then dont waste our time. Ive had to many of those surprises already and my nice nature is wearing off
what do I bring to the table /offer.. well im a handy guy I can fix just about anything, im honest, non cheater,good listener,opinionated,have good morals,i like to think I am a fair minded person that will defend someone if its necessary, im kinda accident prone and clumsy at times so I give lotsa time for a gal to nurse me back to health lol, I have a decent sense of humor even tho it is a lil pervey and dark at times, I do work in the construction industry so my language isn't necessarily all flowery and polite however I do try to curb the "enthusiastic words " when kids are around, I enjoy the company of children , even tho I have none of my own I do like to spend time with and teach little ones how to do stuff, like woodwork or playing with cards etc, im not all that possessive but I am monogomaous by nature and I do have feelings and they can get hurt lol so I tend to treat people the way I would like to be treated, I will ask how your day was and I will be interested in it as you tell me.
well im sure I have other good qualities, however those will have to be urged out if you really are curious
well the first date comes after the original meeting i assume the first meeting is usually coffee shop or a mutual interest .as far as the date well how bout a picnic or a nice meal out n then have a big old bonfire n lay on the grass n yack all nite
to b honest nothing amazing pops into mind for someone i havent met
i think the first date should b unique to the person ur goin out on the date with , not just me writing some bullsh*t down to hope to impress someone . all this wine n dinner n crap sheesh im as romantic as the next guy but dont we all think wine n candles are a lil overplayed
and really how many times a week are ya gonna have wine n candlelight dinners after the first date is over n done with
personally id prefer u dazzled me with your brilliance than your bullshit, how bout first date the man cooks the meal and prepares it , then then woman plans the activity
2nd date the woman cooks and the man plans the activity
3rd date well sex in a public restraunt sounds good to me lol