I am self confident, successful, sociable, caring, affectionate , down to earth and have good family values. I am a man who knows what he wants in life and isn't afraid to say it! I believe that you have to take charge of life and make your own fun! I am a busy professional who meets mostly married women, and although some of them tell me they are "available" , I just don't think it's the way to go (LOL) so I am giving this a try! I have been described as sophisticated, elegant, self assured, loyal, classy,soulful and FUNNY. I prefer a mature woman who is also intelligent without being arrogant. It would be great to meet a nice , sincere uncomplicated woman who is easy to be with has poise and class, and has something to offer and (like me) is able to do more than just one thing well in life, is responsible, COMMUNICATIVE stable and has her life together. I am attracted to someone who is multidimensional meaning that she is well rounded and, able to do more than one or two things well... I've met lots of women who are one dimensional, for example they may be highly educated, but that's all, or maybe they are physically very pretty, but that's all they have going for them...no other talents or abilities....you get my point I hope. This would help because I am multidimensional and it would help to have this in common with each other to be realistic about having a chance at hitting it off....While I may be looking for a needle in a haystack it's because I have a desire to create something special. Do you? I've been told that I am exciting to be with, and I can talk about many subjects and love conversation but also have a shy quiet side and an adventurous side. By the way, would you be interested in having a baby, raising a child together and having a loving /harmonious and fun family life? Or if you already have a child then that's fine because I like children! My parents are happily married and I have them as a successful and classy example to follow. I am into healthy eating and feel it is important to keep physically fit and I enjoy being active (swam competitively all through my younger childhood and adolescent years, and was a lifeguard for summers during high school and college). I think I have a wide range of interests some of which are: intellectual stimulation, including museums, art, architecture, travel, dancing, bicycle riding, walking, movies and the outdoors. I also love to travel and have traveled extensively and I prefer someone who has also traveled somewhat and appreciates travel. I visited most parts of the world by the age of 28 and this has broadened my perspective and my mind on life, people and lifestyles. I like children and dogs! Can I sing to you at 4am? There is so much more so just ask....don't be shy! I've become more cynical as I've aged..... LOL Have you??? Since you're reading this you are obviously on here...and therefore we are both looking for love in all the wrong places!-LOL
A relaxed first meeting is not what I consider a date but a meeting to talk and just meet ...such as meeting for coffee... say .... in Chernobyl (I've always wanted to explore that fabulous city) or perhaps meet in New Orleans during hurricane season????(LOL) ...and if there is great communication and chemistry then the next date could be lunch or dinner in a comfortable atmosphere.