The "dont message me" category: First things first: if you don't have your own vehicle, dwelling place or decent career, don't bother messaging me. If you are looking for a sexual encounter but trying camouflage it on this site by going through the motions as if you are interested in dating but aren't... Don't message me. If you are entertaining several women on the site and your messages are very broad and spread out don't message me. Hi im Nimia and i just want a good companion that i can grow with to eventually be long term. I would prefer us to have similiar goals and interest.I am a confident black woman who is independent, responsible and educated. I love music such as jazz, r&b, classical, rap, gospel etc. I like to meet new people that will make a difference in my life and even people i can learn from. I love to go on dates, travel and smile. :) Looking forward to meeting someone who can make me smile while we grow a great friendship that will hopefully lead to a great relationship.