I used to respond to every message, but due to the overwhelming amount of "hey/what's up/etc" stupid pointless messages, let me just say now thanks but no thanks. I will respond if you have something meaningful to say. With that said, if you treat me like the queen that I am, I will reciprocate by treating you like a king. :) Simple as that....
I like to go out and party, as well as staying in and cuddling to a good movie and/or video games. I'm not the type of girl to fall head over heels for just any guy. It really takes a lot to gain and maintain my attention because I have high standards in a partner. I'm an overall easy to please girl but I have a competitive spirit ;) Definitely a night owl, never really been a morning person (my sleep is sacred). I'm more assertive and independent than most girls, which is my theory on why I'm on this site to begin with. If you're looking for a woman to follow orders and to be at your beck and call, KEEP LOOKING. For me, equality is what it's all about. In a relationship, I'm determined to find a man who can give me in return as much as I give him (emotionally, physically, and mentally). I'm a big animal person, but I'm especially a sucker for dogs. My dream guy would be a tall handsome dog lover who can satisfy all my needs. Oh facial hair is a plus, too! I go crazy for a man with facial hair. :) Also, I like a guy who knows what he wants, whether it be short or long term goals...at least want SOMETHING or I'll think you're boring. As an Aries, I'm kind of stubborn. I like to be right, what can I say? But at the same time, I will be the first to admit I was wrong when I've messed up. Oh, did I mention I cuss a bit? :/ Although I'm strong willed, I'm extremely shy when it comes to making the first move, so you have to be the one to GO FOR IT :) Like my profile says, I'm not looking for anything serious just hoping to meet some cool guys who are worth my time. Whatever happens, happens.
A basic list of things I look for in a guy:
Don't worry if you don't have a lot of these, if you play your cards right I'll still be interested, but if you DO have these it's definitely a BIG plus :D
-good body odor (I'm a sucker for cologne, makes me hot!)
-Height (I'm pretty short, so anything taller than me is fine, but taller is better)
-Charm (If you just say "hi let's hook up" I'm going to think you've got no game and are therefore LAME)
-Muscles (You don't have to be a juice head, but some guns would be hot)
-Intelligence (Not looking for Einstein, but I'll admire anyone who is politically/socially up to date)
-Sense of humor (I speak three languages: English, Spanish, and Sarcasm. :P )
-Financial stability (I'm not expecting gifts, but knowing that you're doing well shows you're responsible, which is awesome)
-Nerve (I may talk the talk, but when it comes to relationships I'm really shy. A guy who's ballsy enough to make the first move is what I need)
-Animal lover (At least dogs lol)
Out of all those things I mentioned, honesty is the most important to me. Don't beat around the bush, just be straight up with me, and I'll give you the same in return.
**When messaging me, I'll pay more attention to you if you tell me specifically WHY my profile attracted me to you. Depending on what your answer is, I'll get a better understanding of what kinda guy you are.
Whatever it is, I think it should last no more than an hour. Not only does that work in case we don't like each other, but if we DO click, that will keep some spark and make me anticipate the second date!