A little about me:
I’m in my late 30’s, single mom of 2 boys (16) and (4). I work and go to school online (off for the summer). I love music all types except country sorry!!!! I love to cook all types of food; Soul Food and Mexican are my expertise. I have my own place and ride. I don’t hang out in bars but will stop by for a drink if invited. I'm honest, loyal, love my family and I have standards. I do not smoke and I’m not going to sleep with you on the first date.
If I didn't lose you after that last comment: Please Keep Reading!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm happy and grateful just about every day (waking up every morning makes me that way). But as happy as I am, I do find myself getting a little lonely at times; being single and all. So I've decided to give POF another try. I met a guy on here last year, we dated for 9 months and when I asked him where did he see the relationship going he said “he didn't”. I know right, so I had no choice but to end things. That was in April, I gave myself sometime; now I’m ready to start dating again.
My likes: I love a confident man, not jerky but confident. You must treat women with respect and love your family. Romance fellas it is still necessary to romance a woman (this woman). I like my guy to be in shape; somewhat healthy into sports. The sport can be anything from basketball to snowboarding. I love nice teeth and a smile to match. Tattoos just not all up your face and neck; a nice body to go with those tats would be great too! Please have good hygiene, just because your ex didn't have anything the last time she went to the doctor, doesn't mean you don’t. I get tested twice a year (because your suppose to) and if I change partners. These are just to name a few the list is longer!!!!!!!
Now for my dislikes: Liars, Liars oh did I say Liars! Honesty is refreshing! Unemployed men, uneducated you don’t have to be a college grad but please know how to articulate. Boring, I don’t like sitting up under you watching sports all-day. Cheap!!!!!!!! I can support myself and you for that matter but buffets are out of the question. Bad teeth, bad breath; there’s this place called Dentist office make the call. Uncultured people; your race is not the only race on this planet!!!!!!!!! These are just to name a few the list is longer!!!!!!!
Divorced/Separated Guys, please do not message me if you do not have your sh*t in order! If you have kids, have a schedule. I don’t have those issues and leave your drama for the next chick!
Guys who’s Intent says they are not looking for anything serious, looking for a good time etc. please do not message me. My Intent is putting a serious effort to find someone. I’m not looking to get married tomorrow but I’m also not looking to be your Friday Night!!!!!!!!! Or any other night.
I will be the first to admit I am not perfect, it might sound as if I’m picky (I am). I to have a little wiggle room given the right person. Hit me up if we vibe, we can meet for a drink (coffee, jamba juice). Oh one more thing, I’m really small so if you are BBM; I’m not interested. Tall and some muscles are ok but I’m fragile.
Good luck on your search : )
Grab a drink, if we make a connection grab a meal. Ending with a goodnight kiss, make sure the signs are there.