I love doing anything in or near the water, I wanna go out and play, I wanna have no inhibitions and giggle, and act silly! I hate that I am trying to meet people over the internet... this is ridiculous! I never had trouble meeting people before the internet came along, and now it's like a requirement, if you're single better get online and search...OMG REALLY? Call me crazy, but what ever happened to fate, crossing paths, all that nonsense, I mean I know by now there is no fairytale, but hey, a girl can dream right... I hate guys who are too quiet, shy, or soft spoken, if that describes you don't bother, also, I am a very physical person, and I want to see pics...good pics, recent pics. I have an 11 year old, he is everything to me, and no one can ever change that! Try not to regret past mistakes, but damn I wish I had a crystal ball so I can be sure not to make them again. I can't offer much except for my sparkling personality, at least 1/2 a brain and can carry on a conversation, fit in anywhere with anyone, and almost always have a friggin blast, please don't try to bring me down. I am the perfect balance between a lady and a freak! I like to party and I like to stay home and chill, depends... I want to find someone who knows there is a time and place for everything, and somehow know where that place is and when it's time! I want someone who is non-judgemental, and not a control freak but is not afraid to take charge when it's appropriate. One last thing . . if you are over 45 don't bother, if you live outside the Tampa area, expect to drive cause I wont come to you, and if you have 5 kids and three baby mamas get off this site and take care of your kids...Or if you have a crazy ex or if you are in any way unavailable I don't want ya....I have found a way to start over, no strings attached, and I don't need any hotmesses!