It's tough for me to talk about myself, I'm more interested in others and love to hear people's stories, but here it goes. I love to laugh, and think I'm pretty funny, although we would have to poll others for their thoughts. I like to communicate and wish I could get everyone to be honest with what they want and not play games, so I try to model that behavior and hope others follow suit. I'm an educated gentleman who is gregarious, affable, and likes to go places, however I need to be pushed at times to get out there because I'm also perfectly fine at home by myself. Once I'm out, watch out! My taste in music is eclectic, as is my taste for life; I like working out and I also love to eat-(which is why I workout). I'm silly/serious-(you'll have to meet me to figure out that one), I'm klutzy at times but love to try new things, I'm a good conversationalist and I like to read-(stop signs), just kidding. I have many books and when I have serious down time I enjoy becoming a bit more well-rounded.
Actually, what I would do on a first date is situational, since no one is the same, I would do something different depending on the personality of the person I'm seeing at the time. I'm a poet so if she liked poetry I would take her to a place that has a poetry night and try to get her to recite something, if she liked sports, I would find out which sport she liked and possibly buy tickets to a game, if she was a gourmand (within reason of course), I would take her to a top tier restaurant and gather her opinion of the cuisine, if she's amorous, we would have a night of (protected) passion, as I said it's situational and I look forward to varying situations!