I am not a California native but I've been here since '92 and love it. I am from a very large family and keep in close contact with them. Physical and spirtual fitness are two things I try to keep in sync. I am out spoken and I have a strong sense of self and a well cultivated sense of humor. I enjoy laughter, live music of all kinds, theater, travel, and nature.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Coffee and/or a glass of wine, appetizer or not and a chat. No need to rush things.