I am not the ordinary guy. I do not have that smart mouth on me or full of hot air, I don't hang out at bars (hence why I am here) and I am looking for a woman with substance. The question is do you know what you want. Do you want a guy that has put a lot of thought into what he wants. Do you want to know that the guy is with you because he really digs you. You would know that I was with you for all the right reasons, and not because you had a heart beat. Are you willing to take a chance? Really my list is pretty simple I don't ask for much.
I want a woman that can think - really this isn't that hard.
I would like someone who is somewhat goal oriented and has a career or at least one in mind - this is easy right?
Some one that will make me feel funny even if its a stupid joke. - Really I am an introvert and very easy to talk to - pretty open about all things, kinda lack a filter.
Someone that likes to cuddle - come on, how many girls don't like to cuddle?
Someone that likes to cook or is willing to learn to cook with me in the kitchen. This to me is a lot of fun.
Someone that will let me take care of them from time to time and let me feel important. Isn't this something that every woman wants from time to time?
Likes children, has some of her own or wants some, that would be great but, but bottom line must like kids, I have primary custody of my daughter and has pretty much been that way most of her life. Yes I am a single dad and wouldn't have it any other way.
Dating does not need to be hard, its really easy.
Last but not least you just needs to be pleasant on my eyes (perceptual). I am not looking for a super model. If you are beautiful great, but I just want low maintenance little makeup, throw your hair up and walk out the door type of girl. Come on I am not a Pin up myself and I am looking for an equal.
I am willing to make the commute to places for a person that is interesting and if you are willing to do the same then we can work it out.
If I met the right person I could make decision on living other places, of course that would need to working such as selling my homes, finding work (not that hard) and getting my daughters mother to agree to me moving. Towards Seattle is where she lives. But I believe she would still be OK with the Spokane area which is where I am original from, still love and enjoy going there. Bottom line I am willing to negotiate this out.
Lastly, if you want a guy that is interested in doing things for you and is interested in how you think and is interested in working on a relationship. Don't pass me up.
I am a lot more then what you first see and sometimes it takes a while for you to see all of me. (I will be up front and tell you all my deep dark secrets, not sugar coating)
For those that know Myers Briggs I am an ISTP so you know my style and can understand how to get a long with me.
Now if I have said something in this profile that has turned you off please let me know I am all about self improvement.
If there is something in this profile that has sparked your curiosity let me know.
How about you? Could we have something in common?
Hope you to hear from you
PS If I added you to my favorites it's because I thought we could be a good match, and this could be me dropping my line to see if I get a nibble...
My interests are vast and varied and I am not defined by one hobby or experience. I am very dynamic and evolving. My life is my masterpiece and when its complete so I will be as well.
Lets find out together, it depends on the company, and shy is OK as long as we are talking at the end of the day. Sometimes it takes a few meetings before two people really get going and I do find that some of the best people are the shy ones.