If you like what you see don't hesitate to write. As the title suggests I am a plus size, bbw, rubenesque gal, however you choose to call it...i.e. I have meat on my bones.
Random thoughts: These are just thoughts about stuff I have experienced here....maybe it could be a conversation starter?
If you think you want to "meet me"...why not just send a message :)...and...please be sure you have read my profile....because I am not everyone's cup of tea!
Please understand that I will not hand out my phone number without having exchanged a few emails and or chatted a bit on IM.
Without sounding negative......Rudeness abounds "here"!
If you have to tell me you're not a flake, you're a gentleman, you're an all around good guy.....I've learned chances are....you're probably just the opposite. Actions speak louder than words :) Updated September 7th, 2013.
Post a picture.....If you're afraid because you might be seen, then maybe you shouldn't be on a dating site?
If I've viewed your profile and don't send a message it doesn't mean I'm not interested. I don't initiate a "conversation" here as it goes back to the "rudeness" that I've encountered here. So if you've seen that I've viewed your profile and I haven't scared you away, send me a message :) I do respond to all.
Keeping it simple, seems to be the best. Maybe meet for coffee, lunch something along those lines. Some place where you can sit and "hear" the conversation. I am always open for suggestions though!