myownbasketballteam: I'm Going to Seize the Day Until it Rattles!
Non-Smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Near bremerton, Washington
41 year old Female, 5' 6" (168cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Scorpio
myownbasketballteam wants to date but nothing serious.
Some college
Hopeless Romantic

Winter 2014/2015

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 9 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Cat & Dog  

About Me
Everyone says that they're "bad at doing this" ... so I'll refrain from repeating the obvious. But, to cover the basics: I'm a single (obviously right?) mother of five (my own basketball team) who works full time in education (obviously, I really like kids).

I have a lot of interests and I'm always willing to learn new things. I tend to be an open, social individual - not much surprises me (though I might be highly amused :) - who likes an easy going pace, no pressure, and can fit into most social situations comfortably: I like to dress up and go out just as well as I like lounging on the couch and watching a movie. I love to laugh - it's the best medicine! ... but sometimes a good cry at a cheesy flick can be just as good. I enjoy camping as much as I can a day at the theater ... with the right sort of company. I thoroughly enjoy holding a conversation with almost anyone ... as long as I have some intellectual return (and don't turn it into a boxing match of opinions). And I believe in things like: respect, manners, and open mind, the good old fashioned giggles, blushing occasionally, random inappropriate jokes, attempting to avoid negativity and a little bit (okay, a lot) of random Geek girl behavior that includes things like video games, movies and comic books.

So drop me a line and see how it goes. I promise I don't bite (hard :)

PS: So I've gotten several questions of "ust what are you looking for?" (because I do want to date, but I don't want the marriage/co-habitation type arrangement ... and I'm also not available for the "booty call") ... so I thought I'd preface the answer here:

I'm not really looking for anything (marriage) serious right now - but that doesn't mean not "relationship" serious. I'd prefer to keep things simple: messages, chatting, phone calls/texting, friendly hanging out and/or dating ... just keeping to a pretty low key kind of situation. It doesn't mean that I'm closed off to the possibility of a relationship developing (I realize that I can't predict what will happen and you never know - things can and do change!) ... but I am focusing primarily on my family right now and the flexibility and understanding that I need to make it successful. Unfortunately, this does put some limitations on the relationships I can entertain at this time (and it does hamper travel/distance, also, as I tend to keep close to the home fort).

But just because I'm not looking for the settling down type of commitment doesn't mean I will be (or want my partner to be) jumping from person to person, entertaining the attached or married kind (their significant others tend to get kind of upset) or having a casual fling. I'm sorry, but I'm not here for sex folks. So if you are looking for a quick fix ... I'm probably not going to be the right person for you. I tend to be a pretty directed, independent type of person. And please: just remember that in my world, my kids are first and foremost ... so if you can't handle my busy life style and the devotion to the smaller breed that that entails, you may also want to move along ... I can't do high maintenance right now.

FYI: as clarification - "does not want children" means I don't want anymore of my own :) I don't mind meeting men that have children themselves ... (it just seemed so vague!)


Some of my "Likes":

Musically - Disturbed, Linkin Park, Evanescence, Shinedown, Staind, Metallica, 3Oh!3, Drowning Pool, Era, X-Ray Dog, Lacuna Coil, Within Temptation, Ludacris, Blackeyed Peas, Three Doors Down, Greenday, Buck Cherry, All American Rejects, Aerosmith, Nickleback, Godsmack, Hinder, Michael Buble, Paramore, Rob Zombie, Three Days Grace, Skillet, Fort Minor ... and lots more!

Movies - Transformers (All), Harry Potter (All), X-Men (All, Including First Class), Avengers, Thor, Captain America, Narnia (All), Iron Man (All), Matrix (All), Van Helsing, Queen of the Damned, Interview with a Vampire, Underworld (All), Avatar, Dracula, Braveheart, Gladiator, Gone with the Wind, Angels and Demons, DaVinci Code, Pirates of the Caribbean (All), Tron, 300, Disney, Pitch Black, Riddick, Star Wars (All), Indiana Jones (All), Glory, Edward Scissorhands, Lord of the Rings (All) & The Hobbit, The Mummy (All), Oceans Eleven, Silence of the Lambs, Shakespeare in Love, Titanic, X-Files, Les Miserables ... and lots more!

TV Shows - NCIS, CSI, Psych, X-Files, The Office, Death Note, Cake Boss, Man vs. Food, Diners Drive-Ins and Dives, Supernatural, Teenwolf, Blue Collar, Glee, Walking Dead, Deadliest Warriors, Myth Busters (I don't tend to get to watch much regular TV ... but Netflix is one of my best friends :)

Video/Computer Games - Sims 1, 2 & 3, Halo, Bio-Shock 2, Fable 1, 2 & 3, Fall Out 2, Civilization, Epic Mickey, Lego (Batman, Harry Potter), Assassin's Creed, Just Dance & Dance Central, Skyrim (Yes - I'm a Video Game/Computer Game/Comic Loving Geek Girl :)

Foods - Mexican, Italian, American! Pretty easy ...

First Date
Money and prestige don't impress me. You can have all the wealth in the world, but without a moral compass and some basic intelligence to back it up ... you're no better than the next fellow on the street. I like someone who is real: now whether that means a simple movie and dinner, a walk along some random shore, a meet and greet for coffee, or maybe a round of drinks and (badly sung) karaoke ... that's fine all fine by me ... just as long as you have some basic manners, the sense God gave you, and a decent level of maturity. I enjoy someone I can hold a conversation with, laugh with, and who can appreciate the little things in life - and hold me accountable to the same. The rest is negotiable.

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