So many men display they have no communication skills! aaack! Or does that simply mean that those that can are not available?
You'll find I'm up front, down to earth, compassionate, supportive, an all around good person, I'm not perfect and don't expect perfection from you. I try to stay in relatively decent shape but that's getting harder as I get older. I am looking for someone with whom we have mutual attraction and interest in building a long-term (hopefully happily ever after) monogamous relationship together. I'm hoping to find someone to go through life with. Life is too short to want to "date but nothing serious."
You must be someone who can and does communicate. Nothing can ruin a relationship (or potential relationship) like stressing someone out by keeping them guessing! And if you keep them guessing, they will be making assumptions on past experiences which are probably not positive. And be an honest person! I'm looking for someone that wants to contribute to the relationship in every way - to want to contribute to making our lives better, as do I. Yes, at this age we tend to know a lot of what we like, but there are bound to be some other things we'll like when together with that someone special.
I'm looking for someone who's around my age. I want someone who cares about the world around him and not just himself. He would be passionate, intelligent, supportive, KIND, compassionate, generally has an optimistic outlook on life, a little adventurous, likes to hold hands, snuggle, kiss..... I want someone who wants a best friend and lover, and wants to share their life with me and me with them - you know, the real deal. I don't think you can really live life as you want to live it if you can't share it and I'm really hoping to find someone to spend the rest of my life with.
If you write, please say something worthy of a response - like questions to me about things that are important to you and I will do the same if there's any potential interest. I find small talk (especially on here) really annoying. Say something that lets me know you've taken the time to read my profile and want to know me. After a few exchanges we should know if we want to meet. And of course tell me your name! (sometimes you just have to state the obvious.)
You MUST HAVE A BIG HEART FOR ANIMALS and you MUST NOT BE A SMOKER.
I'm honestly only interested in meaningful exchange in hopes of finding that one special guy for me. So please save the "hello beautifuls" and "how ya doin's".
Just so you know horrible grammar is a turnoff and text speak is a peeve of mine (ie. u, instead of you). Do you have relatively current pics and can you post them upright? If you're "dating but nothing serious", then you've admitted you're not open to a potential ltr, so let's not waste each other's time.
Just so you know... Chances of my responding to 'nothing' messages like - Hi, How are you?, or How's POF treating you? or other pointless small talk, are slim to none. And if any of your pictures have you or someone else flipping off the camera, then I'm not for you.