Be wary of the profiles that seek NO DRAMA, for they are likely the creators of it and the reason they've had so much of it.
I'm not interested in shallow interactions. I'm only interested in meaningful exchange in hopes of finding that one special guy for me. And trust me when I say - don't try to be funny in your emails. It will almost always backfire - at least while we are getting to know each other.
I've learned it's no fun if you're not rooting for the same team, so hopefully you're a Seahawks fan. ;)
You MUST HAVE A BIG HEART FOR ANIMALS.
Please communicate somewhat intelligently. I'm completely amazed at the lack of communication skills anymore. Sad. If English is your first language, then you have no excuses. We all make mistakes now and then but come on - capitalize, punctuate, spell out your words...Post your pics right side up (it's really not that hard). HAVE pics! And current ones! In this day and age we all have or know someone with a smart phone!
You'll find I'm up front, down to earth, compassionate, supportive, an all around good person, I'm not perfect and don't expect perfection from you. I work out regularly (and no, I don't enjoy it!) so I try to stay in relatively decent shape but I'm not a hardbody. I am looking for someone with whom we have mutual attraction and interest in building a long-term (hopefully to live happily ever after) monogamous relationship together. I'm hoping to find someone to go through life with. Life is too short to want to "date but nothing serious."
You must be someone who can and does communicate. Nothing can ruin a relationship (or potential relationship) like stressing someone out by keeping them guessing! And if you keep them guessing, they will be making assumptions on past experiences which are probably not positive. And be honest! I'm looking for someone that wants to contribute to the relationship in every way - to want to contribute to making our lives better, as do I. Yes, at this age we tend to know a lot of what we like, but there are bound to be some other things we'll like when together with that someone special.
I'm looking for someone who's around my age, which I'm finding to be quite the challenge given that seemingly most men around my age seem to be looking for someone considerably younger. I want someone who cares about the world around him and not just himself. He would be passionate, sexy, intelligent, supportive, KIND, compassionate, generally has an optimistic outlook on life, a little adventurous, likes to hold hands, snuggle, kiss..... I want someone who wants a best friend and lover, and wants to share their life with me and me with them. I want it all! I don't think you can really live life as you want to live it if you can't share it and I'm really hoping to find someone to spend the rest of my life with.
BTW, I'm not here to chit chat about my past encounters. We'll have plenty of time to laugh about our past experiences gradually as we build a relationship together. :) If you write, please say something worthy of a response - not just "hi" or "how are you", etc. Ask me questions about things that are important to you and I will do the same if there's any potential interest. Say something that lets me know you've taken the time to read my profile and want to know me. After a few exchanges we should know if we want to meet. And of course tell me your name! (sometimes you just have to state the obvious.)