Age: 31
Age: 28
boundbydesign: Don't over think it
Non-smoker with A Few Extra Pounds
Oklahoma city, Oklahoma
30 year old Man, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-Religious
Caucasian Cancer with Blonde hair
boundbydesign is looking for a relationship.
Some university

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 7 years
Second Language Urdu  

About Captain
First and foremost a sense of humor is necessary. I can bite my tongue when it comes to some of my humor but if I feel like I am going to be on eggshells around you then it just won't work. I have lived life and feel well rounded. I don't carry my baggage around and know right from wrong. I work a lot and can be found at the comedy clubs when I am not in the fluorescent jungle. My firm isn't actually a slave cave but in my life I give everything I have a passion for my constant attention. I believe in the rule of life that is, "Everything in moderation." I see my passions as more deserving but such are vices. I do play video games since they are mental escapes for me. Nothing purifies ones mind from work as shooting a herd of teen kids in Black Ops. Music is another vice of mine. I am an avid enthusiast and collector of music. When I tell you I enjoy many genres of music that means bands whose music has a soul. That does not include MC Hammer, typical "hardcore" bands or run-of-the-mill pop bands that are shot out of a music labels ass like an unwanted birth. Think for yourself. I think about the deeper aspects of ones life. I read a lot about theology, philosophy and sacred geometry. That doesn't make me another sheep in the "new-age" hippie scene. Just ask me and I will gladly discuss my beliefs and personal philosophy. I would really like for a partner to be free thinking and able to hold a conversation. Ideals shouldn't close you off from opportunities but you shouldn't just abandon your ideals just to be with anyone. I am happy alone but that doesn't mean I am closed off. Well if you made it this far then congrats for that. If you want to know anything else then just ask. I enjoy talking to most people.

Late night update:
Sometimes I think about life in a broader sense and tonight is one of those times. I honestly have thought more and more about what I want and it is not the shotgun style of dating that this site seems to deliver in a trojan horse of promises and neatly packaged "dating" experience ideals. I am deeply and profoundly happy with who I am and my goals which means I am happy with or without someone being with me. Our society seems to frown on individuals that have self discovered such personal philosophies and deems people who are alone in public settings as the "odd loner." Essentially what this soap boxing entitles upon you is that I am on here looking for a friend that wants to stay up listening to new albums or discuss topics that could rival that of Plato or Chomsky. You don't have to be a scholar but be interested in the world around you outside of the corporate force feeding and blind following of a non-thinker. I am not going to hold anyone to standards or expectations but at this phase in my life I thoroughly miss the small things I remember for times long past.

New Update:
I am hooked on doing cruises so please have your ducks in a row so you can join me in travelling. I just got back from a cruise in the western Caribbean area and looking at taking another trip in March. Take one trip and witness the sunsets and stars over the ocean and you will be hooked too.

Update per Markus the Creator:
I find it funny that when it comes to age ranges the opinion of Markus is that he should dictate who can talk to whom. For your info Markus I have met many amazing women from your site that are plus 14+ years my age. Thanks to your benevolence I am unable to chat with mature women now because of your shallow sense of what a relationship is. Your opinion reminds me of that equaling the baby boomer era where everyone had the same house, same white picket fence, same car, etc. You realize that is what a communist society creates correct? If you would like to argue that point then please message me so I can set you straight on the matter. With that said, I see you as a fascist. You have the right to run your site as you see fit but you are weak minded to believe you can stop the negative situations that would come with online dating sites. I am not defending everyone, I am defending my stance. If you would like to kick me from your tidy little utopian communist regime wet dream of a dating site then fine. I honestly could not careless. Cease your petty internal dialogue mumbling, "Then you are just the type of individual not serious about a relationship I am referring to." You have no idea what any of us genuinely want at every given moment we log onto your now fascist site. You cannot control that either. So essentially, you found it necessary to intervien and alert everyone of your novel self proclaimed good dead on all the women's behalf and I am finding it necessary to call you out. Stop being narrow minded and believing you can keep any website of any kind Utopian for yourself and not think of the "millions" that utilize your website. If you will remember, eHarmony lost face with it's anti-gay/lesbian agenda. What do you really think will happen when people feel they are going to be dictated by a dating Hitler?

First Date
Come on, no one wants a date explained to them. If there's a spark then you will enjoy the time with each other regardless. Unless you are throwing rocks at children for a date, no one wants to be "that" date.