Guys, I am going to share some profound thoughts here. It will really separate the men from the boys, but that is ok, because some day they too will catch up as well to these conclusions. Do not ask me out for a coffee or for a drink, my reply will be no thank you. However, if you ask me out for dinner, the answer will be yes. Here is why: if you only want to only invest 15 minutes into us then you are very shallow. Good luck on your Barbie hunt, goodbye. Conversation of what we get paid for doing during 8:00 – 5:00 is often irrelevant, as is how long you have been on the site or who you have dated in doing so.
What we are passionate about is really who we are. A real man is comfortable with who he is and where he is in life. He knows that each new woman brings something amazing into his world, and welcomes her with a heartfelt laugh. 15 minutes over a drink will not unveil that. He likes to linger over dinner and talk about broad subjects like “Bucket lists”. “Bucket lists” are incredibly fun – and sharing those crazy thoughts that you have no idea why you have always wanted to see, go, or do this particular item is a riot. It shows our inner excitement, wonder, and awe. Before you know it, the laughter, hours and closeness of someone you greatly enjoy being with begin to fill your mind and heart – and she is sitting right across from you. And that my dear, is what we both want. Let the journey begin.
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