K, here goes....first lemme begin by saying if you have pictures that you took of yourself half naked in the bathroom with your camera phone, own anything ed hardy, throw up the peace sign in pictures, vote republican, or wear basketball shorts all day everyday... ..there is a distinct possibility we aren't gonna hit it off. And thanks for stopping by! If your still here, it's time to let you know I am a big girl, I carry myself well but I understand that's everyone's thing and I respect that hence the reason I thought is just get that out of the way. My photos are all current, yours should be too. :)
I suppose this is where I tell you how super laid back, drama free, and comfortable in my skin I am. That's all true. I work too hard to spend my free time dealing with petty toxic bullshit. I place high value on honesty, respect, and compassion. I consider my time to be the most valuable commodity that I have so don't waste mine and I won't waste yours. My life has changed considerably in the past two years and I never thought I would have the kind of career success that I am experiencing now, and the demands on my time are great. I am a mother to an incredible 15 year old son who is a scholar athlete and one hell of a ball player. On top of my work, his baseball schedule is insane. His father is my best friend. There is no one else in the world I would want to co-parent with. Due to the recent changes in my career, my son now lives with his father full time. We don't feel it necessary for him to bounce back and forth on some court appointed schedule that was written 13 years ago. We learned to put the kid first before our own egos and it worked. On top of this, I volunteer regularly at a shelter providing those in my community that are suffering from homelessness with free haircuts and meals. I also have the most amazing family and group of friends anyone could ask for. I am blessed beyond belief. As much as I would like to meet my perfect mate, I'm not really in a position to be present in a full on relationship. I am separated from my husband of 10 years. We have no intentions of reconciling. We live seperate lives and are respectful of one another and would never bring someone into the home we share together. We share a home still because it suits our current financial situation, and after 10 years it takes some time to fully seperate in a financially and emotionally responsible way. With that being said, when I'm free, I'm free. I have random pockets of free time and would love to spend that time with someone. Ability to be spontaneous is a plus. I am self employed so I do have some margin of flexibility.
as for what im looking for, someone who is smart, passionate, honest, and genuine. Someone who is quick witted and charming who does not spend time talking about how awesome they are, but shows it.
Let's speed this up, shall we?
things im really good at:
*staying up late
* talking about the things i used to be good at
*talking about things i want to be good at
*winning over your parents, friends and
*making people feel comfortable
*sitting in traffic
*planning imaginary vacations on travelocity
*jumping out of airplanes
*getting back up
*doing what feels good
*making the best of things
Current comeback for nearly everything "gangster rap made me do it"
current playlist includes but is not limited to: Johnny Cash, Bob Dylan, Suga Free, Michael Jackson, Coco Rosie, The Buena Vista Social Club, Tupac, Janis Joplin and the Fu Schnikpens.