Well thanks for stopping by. I'm back in the swim. Drop a note and say Hi. There are going to be a lot of statements beginning with " I..." - that comes with a self written expose but am very much into finding an "us" and "we".
I still believe in Love - though I haven't been very lucky with Love. I know that there is someone out there that is perfect for me. I just have not found her yet and it seems it is turning into a quest(audible sigh ensues).
I work pretty hard - it keeps me busy and that doesn't leave a lot of time to find someone truly simpatico. I know that the Bar scene is just not where I would choose to find a prospective partner. I like to play hard as well - but you will find me to be relatively happy go lucky. I don't like to do anything to excess - loss of self-control is just not a playground I want to be in - but I am not stuffy or prudish either.I am just as comfortable in a suit as I am in a pair of shorts and t-shirt.
I have extended the courtesy of posting my photos - I would ask if you are going to write back to me that you extend me the same courtesy please..I would like to know that I am corresponding with someone who is indeed who they say they are. Thank you.
I am looking for someone who believes in Love too. She is looking to settle down at some point, she has a career interest, has her own interests and pursuits and would be happy being a supportive partner who does not mind doing domestic things. Her working life has room for me, she also is the type to make time for a just calling to say hello phone-call, has time to slip a little thinking of you note in some spot for later discovery and appreciation.
My aspirations: I still want to write a book / Screen play about an experience I had being right in the thick of things when the bomb went off in Centennial Olympic Park at the Atlanta Olympic Games. Its a cathartic thing I guess, but surviving it made me really change my view on life and as a consequence I do make a point of stopping to smell all the flowers along the way. I also am deeply involved in Green Politics and am always up for a good discussion. Now I can be swayed on some things but not likely to change my perspective. I just want to leave behind something better than I found it - for my kids and theirs. ( They live with their Mom. )
I want someone to cook with, to cuddle with, to share a laugh and explore all of life's blessings with... If I am a lucky man - She'll become my best and most cherished friend, my confidant and sounding board, my Lady in public and my outrageous,(even kinky)wild and adventurous lover in our boudoir. Could that be you?
I am relatively "baggage" free - or at least what there is - is packed and decidedly in order for someone of my age and experience.
Not to dwell on this, but I have to say it - I don't think I could ever again cope with someone who is dealing with serious depression, anxiety or mood disorders and is prone to dealing with it by self-medicating herself into oblivion. I will not - do not - have time in my life for those dealing with alcoholism or latent reoccurring psychiatric issues. I will not tolerate a mentally or physically abusive relationship EVER again.. I no longer have the patience and emotional energy to fight those demons together with a partner. Please don't apply if you do - I just can't. I just won't.
That's it for now. There is a complex, sensual, romantic and interesting man behind all of this. So if your up to the challenge - I will answer any one single question you care to ask of me - no strings attached - answered honestly and forthright. Make it a good one.
I am not going to rush out to date - there has to be some common interest - some spark - some mutual attraction. But should we decide to meet - A first Date for me would probably be tailored to an activity of mutual interest. I always enjoy good movies or theater. But I am always up for an adventure as well. I suppose the rule of thumb would be I'll try anything once maybe even a few twice. I'm open to just about anything, so what's your pleasure?
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