I’m single. Don’t pity me. I’m not lonely, I choose to be single because I am done settling. I know what I want, I know what I deserve and I don’t mind waiting for it. I want a woman who is as kind and honest as she is funny and laid back. If you think that you are woman enough for me, and you are tired of playing games with boys, take a leap of faith and meet me for an ice breaker somewhere. You learn more about someone in 5 minutes meeting them face to face than you can messaging back and forth for months. If there is chemistry between us, then I will definitely take you on a real date after that and do my best to sweep you off your feet.
I keep my intro messages short because experience has shown me that it doesn't really matter what I say. If you're interested, you're interested. No matter how long or short my message is, you're reading my profile, and I read yours. I messaged you because I liked what I saw and want to learn more. If you feel the same, message me back and we can take it from there. I'm not going to woo you if you don't show any interest. That just makes me look creepy.
Likewise, if you're not interested there's no need to ignore me. A simple "no thank you" will do. I'm a genuinely kind person and I won't get nasty if you turn me down.
Let's keep it simple, it's the the first time we are meeting. Let's meet for coffee or drinks and see if there are any sparks.
If you don't mind being nerdy we could meet at one of the many tabletop game nights I regularly attend. (If you don't know what I'm talking about, but you're curious... http://www.tested.com/art/454213-modern-board-game-bestiary/)
Take a chance on me. I won't disappoint you.