For some time now given the not so pleasant experiences of online dating, I had contemplated whether I should delete my profile from this site. While a recent excursion gave me the clarity to determine whether it was worth staying or not, I had realized that my profile needed a major overhaul having been in Dallas for a year now, and being more established in a much happier place in life. So, here it is…
I am well educated, sophisticated, classy, career-oriented, confident, smart, successful, independent, honest, loyal and I take good care of my body, mind and spirit. It is important to me to work on improving my ‘inside’ as much as maintaining my ‘outside’, if not more. My intuitive nature and self awareness have enabled me to acknowledge and focus on becoming a better person and I work on it on a daily basis; character and integrity are on the top of my list. I hold myself accountable to follow through by my word and in my commitments. I am selfless, very understanding, and more “real” (genuine) than most people you will ever know. I’m not telling you what you want to hear, for there is no façade about me. My pictures are not enhanced or touched up, and I am not a flake, fake or a liar. What you see is what you get. I watch my diet, indulge at the spa regularly for my emotional well being and meditate often for spiritual fulfillment.
I have a vivacious personality, I appreciate life and all that it has to offer, I am positive, I am smiling most of the time, I am playful and flirtatious (when appropriate), witty and funny, love to giggle, and I have my very own blonde moments. I am not an envious person. I am secure enough to hope for and embrace the success of others, this includes the admiration for other beautiful and successful women. I am ambitious and depend on no one but myself. I strongly believe that I am responsible for my own happiness. But despite the strength and independence that I portray, I do have a gentler and softer side. I can be delicate and I have a warm heart. I am kind, love to touch, soothe and nurture…I’m affectionate and consider the feelings of others before my own, almost to a fault. I have great compassion for children, the elderly, all animals, the disabled and the homeless, including people who are ignorant.
Having played sports for most of my life (volleyball, softball in college) I am a tomboy at heart, competitive, love getting dirty by fixing things or goofing off, and enjoy a good sweat at the gym. But don’t let that fool you. I am fashionably feminine and dainty, charismatic, poised and sensual most of the time. I am comfortable in my own skin and I love feeling, smelling and looking sexy…in heels, dresses, lingerie, etc. I don’t own flannel, if that says anything. ;)
I have worked in government affairs and in the public relations arena for almost 20 years, and feel that my professional experience has enhanced my life personally with emotional intelligence and the ability to communicate. I’m a social butterfly, adaptive, and gifted to make a contentious situation, a comfortable one. I try not to judge others, but understand them. I conscientiously work on avoiding or creating drama, and I stay away from negativity.
I believe I am a well-rounded conversationalist, but given my background, some topics include what most men find interesting….mechanics/cars/aircraft, mining, engineering, and most college and pro spectator sports. I’m a documentary junkie/nerd about world history, culture, medicine/anatomy, biology, astronomy, travel, and the judicial system/government/law enforcement. I don’t care for clichéd ‘chic-flicks’ or reality T.V., and I am speculative about stories that seem too one-sided or persuasive, and I am highly critical of the American media.
My travels include most of Western Europe, Central America and of course North America. I continue to explore new places whenever the wind and pocket book allow. My mother is Panamanian with Guatemalan ancestry and my biological father was English/Norwegian. I speak, read and write in Spanish fluently, and as you can see, my English is well above average. I feel blessed and I try not to take things for granted. I love life and can honestly say that I have never been happier.
I AM VERY PICKY, but truly believe that attraction and similar interests from these profiles are what gets one to meet another, and that mutual chemistry and compatibility are what is felt after meeting. Therefore, I do not have initial expectations other than friendship and companionship, then allowing nature to take its course. I have high expectations for myself, and I wish to be with someone who has similar attributes and interests.
I will say that I would like to meet someone attractive, after all, a great sex life and intimacy are very important in my opinion. I would like someone sophisticated, classy, educated, open-minded, affectionate, ambitious and successful (as in accomplished and happy in their heart, career, etc.)…who would like to ‘wear the pants’ so to speak and is confident and mature enough to know wearing the pants doesn’t mean to belittle, insult or control, but to take charge, communicate and be decisive about what he wants, and secure enough to challenge me respectfully. I would like a gentleman who I can learn from, admire and respect stimulating my lady-like and submissive side.
Like me, I want someone who is “real"/genuine and follows through, who takes care of himself inside and out, preferably athletic or physically fit. I would like someone who has nothing to hide and who would be “ready” or fearless for something more concrete if the stars were to align. I would like emotional support, someone who would have my back no matter the circumstances, yet be candidly expressive privately. I need someone who is outgoing and social, I don’t mind someone who has children; however, I too would like to be important and......perhaps doing things together eventually with your children would be okay too.
If you feel that you would be a good match, please do not hesitate sending me a message.
PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME OR WASTE MY TIME IF..
You’re in search of a never ending exchange of meaningless chit-chat without ever meeting- like a pen pal, if you want to sex text, phone sex, an intimate encounter, if you are disingenuous or in denial about your relationship status, lied about your age, your photos are not current, if you aren’t sure about what you want, if you are a lesbian or bisexual, if you are older than 55, if you think I want a sugar daddy or need financial support, if you and your wife/girlfriend want a threesome, if you are a “player”, if you wear a mustache or cowboy hat regularly, if you are looking for a ‘sugar momma’, if you are overweight and groom infrequently, if you have little time to spare, if you are looking for a cougar. ..