Mista3029: Without a net, without fear
About
Non-smoker with A Few Extra Pounds
City
Lowell, Massachusetts
Details
36 year old Man, 5' 10" (178cm), Catholic
Ethnicity
Caucasian Cancer with Brown hair
Intent
Mista3029 Wants a relationship
Education
Masters degree
Personality
Coffee Snob
Profession
Education/Sales/Student







I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Yes
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 1 year How ambitious are you? Ambitious



About Me
Hey, thanks for taking a second to check out the words under the pictures.

In most ways I'm a typical guy: my Mom thinks I'm handsome (thanks, Mom), my friends think I'm funny, love animals, you know the drill.

But, okay, what sets me apart?

Well, I'm employed, amicable, open-minded, unconventional, intelligent (or at least educated,) outgoing and upbeat...and these are just the vowels!

I'm in education and I'm into education; really, totally passionate about it. Get me going about the inequities of our urban public schools, I dare you.

I'm busy...but I prioritize well, so I also date. I'm a teacher during the day, I have a pt job at night, I'm also in grad school. Again. I have mixed feelings about that last part - it turned my life upside down - but I'm doing it anyhow. It does mean that I do have papers and reading to do for school...when I'm not grading papers and assigning reading for work...when I'm not at the evening job...and all that stuff sometimes; which, yes, can suck up some of my free time...but I like being busy.

I used to be like 270lbs. That was fat - all sorts of fat. I'm under 200 now-a-days but still could lose like 20lbs. I'm working on this but, hey, I get it if it's a dealbreaker. Don't be afraid to say so...I'd rather hear that than get nothing back from you at all. That said, I still love to go out and get a bite to eat and have a few beers and watch the game/catch a show/enjoy each others company. It just means I go to the gym more...(although, in the spirit of fairness, I do hate the gym - hate it with such heat and passion that is typically reserved for certain Indian foods, Latin dances, and the surface of a dying star. I go anyhow, though.)

I have a horrible singing voice. Seriously. Like a large barnyard animal. Dying. In great pain.

I suffer from vanity...sorta. Better worded, I suffer from an intense feeling of deserving something good in my life. I suffer from wanting to wake up next to someone who I am proud of; who I am physically, emotionally, AND spiritually attracted to; who I feel could probably do a little bit better than me but, for some reason, seems happy to sleep next to me...but I better not start taking this for granted. Just in case.

...and, frankly, I hope that the woman I am with feels the same way when she looks back. Like all of us, I don't want to be with someone who would rather be with someone else.

I don't like when I hear people say they are looking for their "better" or "other" half - it sounds like they don't feel whole to begin with. A good relationship doesn't complete who you are - it compliments who you are. You were always complete; even if you've forgotten it.

True Story: Sharing a beer or two with a happily married buddy - I pass news from the dating front like it's a job he left but still wants gossip about. I laugh about the last less-than-successful date I had and shrug it off with some passing anecdote. He laughs too and, shaking his head, said "I'm surprised you haven't gotten bitter yet." Honestly? Sure, I've totally gotten bitter...until I meet someone I'm excited to see again. And, suddenly, I'm seven years old and believe in mall santa's and x-men and happily ever after's all over again. It's a good feeling.

If you're curious? Write to me. I'd like to hear from you.

08/13 Updates:

Yes, I have my "No pictures, no mail" settings checked. Attraction is felt immediately. Affection is built over time. Ideally, I'd like both. I hope you do, too!

Speaking of pictures, I was slammed for having a "bunch of selfies" here. Well, it's true, I guess but most of my friends are guys. How often do you see guys snapping pictures of each other with their cellphones? I don't know, I guess I could ask them to...although it may be kinda weird...

First Date
Honestly, I think I'm pretty flexible! I'd like somewhere that I could possibly get to talk and know each other a little bit better?


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