I'm Ben, I'm 41 years old and I am starting my life over. I work as a supervisor at the Kennewick Home Depot. I have 4, wonderful kids who all live with me. They mean everything to me.
I am hardworking, loyal, funny and live to make others happy and feel loved. I am looking for someone wanting to have a future worth looking forward to. Someone who can carry an actual conversation, and wants to know me as much as I would want to know them. If you can't handle or like kids, it's your loss. I love kids and enjoy their company.
I am hoping to live a life I never had in my marriage. I'm hoping that the one person I find will show me the love and companionship I never had. The one person who will share in life and all it has to offer. Traveling, nights out, well... pretty much everything. I'm a good person at heart... I may struggle but I always do my best to be optimistic and outgoing.... and I hope to find the same.
If you're interested, please feel free to drop me a line.
Ladies... If you're interested in finding a man willing to give his all to you, willing to make each day an adventure and special. I am that man. But don't be passive when messaging. Ask questions, make it interesting, cuz I'll be doing the same. I want to learn about you, but you have to be wanting to know me too. Learning about someone and sharing their joys and triumphs, laughter and their tears.... understanding and being compassionate.. this is what this whole dating thing is about. That's when it leads to more. Otherwise you're just here to for meaningless relationships that will be another bad memory to regret.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A first meeting should be simple, relaxing, and tension free. Doesn't have to be fancy... a dinner, maybe a walk in the park. Who knows... maybe catching a movie afterwards. Its a time to get to know one another, by listening to what is said and by sharing life experiences, hopes, and dreams. By watching the others gaze and seeing what else could be done to make them remember the experience. By saying a simple ice breaker to get a smile, and possibly lead to a meaningful future.