I guess I'll just dive right in..........I prefer people who stand out. Personality, generosity, and sense of humor are huge factors in my attraction to someone.
I know which characteristics others admire in me. But I also recognize my faults. My best skills lie in being able to read, observe and notate others peoples demeanor and interactions with others. Which is why I'm good at what I do.
I love cooking---Healthy cooking. And I'm pretty darn good at it. I can find a paleo alternative for any/every unhealthy food you like. Sarcasm is my second language. I try not to be offensive with it. But playful. I love laughter more than anything in the world. I don't settle for mediocrity. And I understand I'm not everyone's dream girl. I shop too much. I curse more than my mother approves. I argue just to get a cute reaction out of you. I will listen to friends vent and gossip, as that is often therapeutic and raw...But never care to repeat it. I'm told by everyone who knows me well, that I have the mentality of a guy. And it's true. And my girlfriends will tell you, I take a detour around drama. Im a no bullsh*t kind of girl. But don't mistake that for not having feelings and emotions. I am noticing lately that with age, I'm gaining a fair amount of sensitivity and empathy. I cry about things that don't even relate to me.
I over analyze the actions of EVERYONE...Because I always want to know why people do what they do. It's a horrible fault. I wear high heels more often than any girl should. My karaoke voice... It sets off car alarms and causes riots in the streets. For that reason, I try to contain my singing to the car. I like wine. I love beer. And wings.
I need someone like-minded. Who is physically fit. Whose life doesn't revolve around drinking. Who likes being active. Tubing down boulder creek, hiking horsetooth. Skiing. Rafting. Running. Someone who enjoys going to church on Sundays... And can actually learn and grow from it, rather than drifting off into their own little world. Because this isn't your world. It's Gods world. And there are a lot of other people less fortunate than you. Be a good listener. Be a giver. Be a helper. Society makes it hard to be a good person, so those who are still true to their values, are very attractive to me.
I question the lack of manners amongst the greater population---Please and thank you, it's a pleasure to meet you----And wonder what ever happened to a man offering his seat for a lady nearby. Witnessing a random act of kindness...Absolutely melts my heart. Sadly, it's rare.
Let's clear this up...I thought it was, "Let's play it by year." And, "It's a doggy dog world." In my defense, the first one TOTALLY made sense, on calendar terms.
Everyone contradicts their own thoughts and beliefs. Everyone makes mistakes. It's only about first impressions to a certain extent. You know what you like, you know what you don't. It's about giving someone a chance, when you deem them worthy. And not wasting their time when it doesn't seem fit. I'm about simplicity these days. And improving myself, first and foremost.
The end. Or the beginning.