Why do men on here always ask in one form or another, why I'm on POF? Um, I think it's cuz I'm single and I'd like to meet someone worth my time...
I'm a real person, with a life and goals... no I'm not coming over your place.
Yes, I do press the *Flirt* button, and yes it sends you a generic "Hey There" message, but it's a start! I'm shy, and I can't always find the right words when starting conversations, give me a little slack!
I work a few jobs, finding free time from work or the family is rare. So, if I make time for you, please don't waste it!
It doesnt take much to make me smile.
Im hoping to find that old school love, like what my grandparents have. If it breaks, fix it!
I'm pretty serious about working out and eating healthy
I'm shy, very loyal, and sometimes a little too honest.
I follow my dreams.
I am very passionate about my health, and my future.
I enjoy the outdoors. I've gone skydiving and would love to go again. I love swimming, hiking, boating, sports, amusement parks, pretty much anything I guess. I love to travel, and I like pretty much all movies.
Anything else? Hit me up and we can go from there!
What kind of man are you looking for?
Do you really want to know?
As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?
I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.
I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader and provider. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.
And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.
I am not asking for a lot, I'm worth a lot!
The last guy she was with really hurt her. He made her insecure, he made her feel like she was wrong all the time, he made her doubt herself, he made her think she wasn't good enough, he made her feel like the worst girlfriend on Earth, he made her believe she didn't deserve better than how she was being treated. He did a lot of damage to her mentally and emotionally and that damage has stayed with her ever since. He's changed her into a completely different girl from who she used to be. She used to be confident, she used to be strong-minded, she used to be brave, she used to be nice, she used to be caring but now, she's low on self-esteem, she's unsure of herself, she's scared to take chances, she's turned into a cold-hearted person, she's somewhat heartless now. She's aware of how difficult it is to be with her at times, and she's sorry about that, but she just hopes you won't give up on her and be able to look past the flaws she now carries and see the good she still has in herself.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something short and sweet, see if there is a connection. Why waste eachother time if we aren't into eachother? oh and something public is good too!