I am a very emotional, passionate person. I care for people deeply and let myself fall in love. I'm very genuine and spontaneous. I feel things very deeply and I want a guy who is the same. If this doesn't resonant with you please don't message me. If you read this please mention it in your message.
I'm so tired of the dating game! Time to find someone who I want to spend my life with
I decided to re-vamp my profile. After dating many different guys, I now am more focused on what I want out of a relationship and in a partner. I want someone who is settled in life (which is why I often decline dates from guys that are students) and knows what he wants. I want a guy who is driven and passionate and can work as hard as he can play. I want a guy who would like a family someday or at least has not dismissed the possibility entirely. I want an intelligent guy who can hold a conversation. I am looking for much more than a phyisical relationship. I tend to date guys that are older than me (3 to 8 years older). I would like a guy who is sucessful in his career and has goals.
I am an educated person, so I would like my partner to be educated as well. I have 2 bachelor's degrees and had a full ride scholarship in college. I received the University of CA regents scholarship.
Here are some ways that others have described me:
-Hard worker and motivated person
-Would like to start a family sooner rather than later; I love kids and I want some of my own
-knows how to treat a man so he will want more
-Educated and a life long learner
-great body and makes an effort to keep it that way
-knows how to cook delicious healthy food; I love cooking with a partner and shopping for fresh ingredients. Some recent things I've made include grilled eggplant and mushrooms with garlic mayo on a whole-wheat bun, mahi mahi fish tacos with a fresh dill lemon sauce, a rum cake with glaze and raspberries, shawarma in pita bread with spicy greek yogurt sauce, shirmp scampi . I cook in a healthy way by baking instead of frying. I know how to make a delicious mojito and pina colada.
-love my family
-Creative; enjoys art galleries, movies, concerts and plays
-Loves to dress nicely
-Loves to go out and enjoy the world. Im not a homebody. I think we are young so we should experience the world to its fullest.
-Loves to be spoiled: Little presents, daytrips, flowers are always fun and appreciated
-Loves romance....flowers, a night on the town, massages
-Loves to travel
-Loves to stay active
-Loves the outdoors, hiking and the beach (I've hiked to all of the waterfalls I know of in Utah :)
-I've worked as a HS math teacher in an intercity school in a previous life and as a tutor for a wide range of subjects. I love to teach and help people understand subjects they are struggling with.
-I've spend many hours volunteering in hospitals, everywhere from the VA to state hospitals. It was a great learning experience and I also like to give my time.
Here is what I'm looking for in a guy:
-You want something long term (if you say "not looking for something serious" then we probably won't get along)
-You are a gentleman: knows to open doors, pull out chairs, take off hats indoors
-Is a compassionate person. Considers others
-Are sure you want a family within the next couple of years
-are educated and motivated
-like to live a healthy active life
-You like to dress nicely: I find a man in a suit irresistible :)
-You know how to plan a date. You can ask me about my likes or dislikes but you can take charge when needed
-as for the physical aspect : I generally like tallish guys (5 10 and above) but typically above 6 ft.
-I generally like brown or black hair (not attracted to most bald guys)
-Clean-shaven (I dont like most facial hair)
-Loves to cuddle and show physical affection
-Likes to communicate: communication is very important in a relationship
-knows how to be in a relationship and what it takes to make a relationship work; hopefully has been in a relationship before.
I want you to ask me out. I'm a traditional girl so I believe in the guy asking the girl out. I think the lunch/dinner is always fun and lets you get to know each other. I also want you to be your real self. No facades
I'm not much into coffee dates or just meeting for drinks. They are too short and don't allow enough time for interaction
To send a message to scraig4 you MUST meet the following criteria:
Older than 25
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke