Sometimes in life you love and you lose love. Quitters never find happiness.
I am a unique woman that is multi-faceted and loves to laugh. I have a quick wit, sarcasm, complete with innuendos. I will stir the pot a little while brewing up a delicious dinner and dessert (yes, I do cook and bake) and keep you entertained with amazing conversation. I know how to keep a man's attention and love to work around the house. I am quite handy, am not afraid to get my hands dirty and realize that if I break a nail they really do grow back and bruises heal.
I am adventurous, spontaneous but also understand my limitations. I am not materialistic and have never tolerated arrogant, self centered people. I believe in doing more for others than they do for you and it will come back to you in other ways (yes, Karma) Good Karma is amazing but bad Karma is as they say... well bad Karma is a Bitxx. So I prefer to always keep the Karma good because it is the right thing to do anyway.
I treat others the way I would want to be treated and the way I would want my family, my mom, my grandma to be treated. So therefore I would treat a total stranger with this respect. Keep in mind that it is easy to speak kind words but unkind words are hard to be unspoken.
But please... do not ever misinterpret my kindness for weakness. Anyone that is mean, cruel, rude or disrespectful to others can easily be put in their place and I have never afraid to put them there. My father always taught me to never start a fight but once started, I will finish it. I have never been in a physical fight in my life and never will, but words and intelligence can easily end any dilemma in a heartbeat when well thought out.
I am looking for a man who knows who he is, what he wants from life, what and who he is searching for, knows how to be respectful to a woman, a man that is not arrogant or boastful, a man who has a great sense of humor, maybe even able to laugh at himself... intelligence is key. He must be employed. This is not to say that he must make 6 figures, but he must be able to comfortably pay his own bills (not mine). But most importantly, a man who is looking for a woman to spend a future with, not just today and possibly tomorrow.
If you do not like animals or are allergic to Cats or a big lovable 100 pound dog, then I am not the right woman for you. If you want to meet at a Starbucks for coffee or tea, I do not drink either. So if you ask me out for either, I will realize you have not ready my profile and dismiss your request for being superficial. I am looking for a man that cares more for who I am inside than what he sees on my exterior. Beauty is only skin deep, however ugly goes clear to the bone.
I am romantic, creative, love to cook, bake, a photographer, poet, Martha Stewart and Norman Rockwell, as well as a seductress all wrapped into one little lady. For some men it may not be enough and for others, it may be too much. However for one man out there, just like Goldilocks and the three Bears, it will be Just Right ~~~
Do not look love, love comes to you when you least expect it.
Here is a poem I wrote years ago. I hope it touches your heart and it touched mine...............
Fallen Soldiers Everywhere
Vietnam caused quite a stir, as did wars before,
America was angry, but it could not be ignored.
They died to save our freedom, alone in Desert Storm,
They died, as we lay safe in bed, where we were nice and warm.
These soldiers were so young at heart, old with maturity,
Just babies deep within our hearts, blessed with integrity.
They suffered so to save us, our freedom to maintain,
Some came home safe to moms and dads, others to remain.
These soldiers gave their very lives, to give peace to us all,
Barely children were they, that for our country fall,
Show support to our soldiers, not for war for which they fight,
Don't protest the war at all, or if it's wrong or right.
Just stand tall for our brothers, and sisters just like me.
For they are all our children, fighting so we can all be free,
They watch the bombs exploding, as bullets by them fly.
They watch as fellow soldiers held within their arms do die.
Fallen soldiers... Gave their lives for you and me,
With their very blood they paid - so we could be free.
Fallen soldiers, faced their fear and died so brave,
They gave us all they had to give, for our lives to save.