Intelligence and Humor Mandatory~~~
Like most everyone, I am looking for someone to spend time with, and it would be amazing if a relationship developed. Living life a little on the edge and being adventurous is rejuvenating so I sometimes think outside the box. However, all in all, I still play it safe.
With me, you can expect the unexpected.
You must be able to laugh at yourself because I do love a man with good sense of humor, and you must be able to find the humor in life. Life is about compromise and simple pleasures. Find beauty in the small and simple things. Honesty is imperative. Be honest with yourself and all else falls into place. Don't profess to want a relationship when you are really looking for companionship or worse, something less. In the end, truth always wins out and people are transparent. I am not here to play games, nor do I want drama. If drama follows you or you create drama, please, take it elsewhere.
Same as every other hot blooded woman, I am looking for a good man with honest old fashioned values and morals, wants and needs, modern thoughts, intelligence, good grammar, a man that knows that "Conversate" was never in the dictionary, (but was just recently added because of all the people incorrectly using it), and also has an amazing sense of humor, as well as ability to tease and be teased... (of course, all in good fun). Sarcasm is great, but only as long as no one gets hurt. I am looking for a man that understands beauty comes from within. If you are not a good person inside, no amount of external beauty matters. Ugly goes clear to the bone! I will not date an arrogant, self indulgent, narcissistic man that treats others poorly and with disrespect.
Nature is amazing and I adore anything to do with nature. I have not been camping in a long time, but give me my air mattress and I am game. I want to go zip lining and rapelling. I have not been scuba diving in awhile, but my last dive was with sharks was utterly amazing.
Working around my house is enjoyable so I hope you have a creative mind and are willing to learn new things, and can attempt to be handy. It is fun. Cooking is fun but better when done by two together. *** If you do not like cats and dogs or are allergic, there Is no need to apply.*** I have a large playful, energetic 100 pound dog and three beautiful cats. They are my family and not going anywhere for a long time. Yes, my animals do take planning in my life but all things can we worked out.
I do not drink coffee or tea. So please do not ask me out for coffee. I will not go out for coffee. If you do ask me out for coffee, I will know that you have not read my profile and I will reject you for being superficial and have only looked at my photos or something South of my smile. I do not care for superficial, arrogant, materialistic, self centered people. So if you show a picture of yourself next to your new sports car or speedboat, the only one who will be impressed by that is you. Good looks are nice but substance... well without substance, you are Nothing! I completed by profile and gave you something to read and photos to see who I am, I will not respond if you do not do the same.
Know respect and be respectful, not only to me but to others. If you treat people with disrespect, I know what I am to expect when you are no longer on your best behavior... wait, was that your best behavior? As mama used to say, the world may be going to Hell in a handbasket. As a child, I never quite understood what it meant, but in retrospect, I feel she was telling me that if people give you the worst they have to offer up front, it will only go downhill from there. (Mama, can you hear me? Did I get that right?) I guess a telephone call would be a little easier if I want to really hear her answer.
But most of all, be true to yourself. Do not change yourself to make anyone else happy, because you will lose yourself in the process. Live your life with no regrets. Unspoken words cannot hurt anyone, but words of hurt can never be unspoken.
Never live your life wishing upon the things you should have done, live your life wishing you had more time to do things for others. I believe in being honest and I believe in never going out of your way to do something mean, hurtful or cruel to others.
So here is a piece of honestly, I am a woman with curves... I am voluptuous... Always have been, always will be. I do not consider myself athletic, I do not consider myself skinny, I could lose a few pounds here and there... If you want to date a stick figure, you need to look elsewhere, because that is not me...I do not look like Twiggy, I have Been built like this since I can remember. I am built like Marilyn Monroe~~~ Some like it hot! I also know what my type is. I like latin men and I like caucasian men. Any darker than that, then you are not my type. Sorry, but that is how I was raised. You can be my friend, however I will not date you. I am not racial, it is just not my preference, so please, do not contact me for dating purposes. I will not respond. If you have a cats or a small Yappy, irritating dog... I have enough cats and do not need any more, and I have no need for small yappy dogs, if you have a large dog, there is always room for another.
I write poetry... Here is a poem I wrote...
Demons in the Dark
The emptiness that fills my world, the nights and days compete,
Demons deep within my head, impossible to sleep,
The thoughts they make no common sense, I try to rationalize,
But in the mirror all that I see is the emptiness in my eyes.
Demons in the dark fulfill my deepest, darkest fear,
The loved ones that I need and want, so far and yet so near.
Close enough to touch them, and yet just out of reach,
What lesson do I have to learn, that God is trying to teach?
The disrespect I’ve felt now, for years I’d tolerate,
Instead of feeling love for me, for self I’ve felt just hate.
To learn to love myself, I need to learn respect,
But first I must demand it, and stop all this neglect.
So lonely sleepless nights are haunted by my Demons in the Dark,
The less I sleep, their power grows, the more they make their mark.
I look around my world, Depression fills the void,
Where once I had a happy heart, I now can’t find the joy.
I look to find a fragment, a shred of those who cared,
I look for love within their eyes and all the things we’ve shared,
It’s too much to be bothered, for a moment of their time,
So Demons in the Dark are who I have to share with mi