Well I did it. I uploaded some very recent pics of me, and thanks to someone, I see that I have changed alot in the last few years--ouch-:-) But, hey--I guess it beats the alternative to not aging at all. I have come to realize that looks are not as important as I used to think they were--don't get me wrong, there still has to be that physical attractiveness, but now it can be a little less stringent. I look at myself in the mirror and I like what I see. But, I also know that it is more my personality, humor, and big heart--and shoulders, that women find most attractive. I have been on here and have come across some women that took their profiles down because someone said something mean to them---Why would anyone do that??? If you don't like someone, because of their profile or how they look then just pass them by, there is no reason to be mean about it. I have been fortunate that no one has been mean or said anything very negative towards me, if I stay on this site I am sure it will happen soon enough-LOL
Anyway, my point is, that there is a bunch of people out there, that are lonely, not feeling good about themselves for one reason or another, and just want someone to talk with and maybe go out and do some things, with a fellow grown-up.
I am just looking for someone to hang out with, maybe get a beer and share some of our life's trials and tribulations. I am not looking for my next wife yet, I am just recently divorced, I am over her, but I also want to concentrate on getting my life in order and making sure my kids are doing okay.
Well, I guess I have rambled on enough--If you like what you read then send me a note--Have a great day--Matt-:-)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I would like to meet my match someplace where she is comfortable, the music/noise isn't too loud, that way I could get to know her and she could get to know me. After that, whatever we mutually decide to do would be fine with me.