Figured I had to update because I'm tired of answering all the same questions. I work 2 full-time jobs. One is in public school the other is in security. I have 3 children: a boy who is 16 and 9 year old twins; one of each. I'm hoping to someday find the person I'm meant to be with. You know, a real relationship. The kind where you own a house, have backyard barbecues and save for retirement. I tend to date interracially and two of my children are biracial. I'm open and would like to date within my own race as well but it never really turns into more than surface level conversation. I'm not looking for friends. If you smoke weed please keep it moving. I'm annoyed by profiles that are in all caps. Idk why. I enjoy dancing, darts, sports and anything competitive. I'm hoping to find that effortless click with someone. I love to laugh and think I'm the funniest person I know. I respect honesty and give it in return. I like a man with a lil swag but no criminal record, (is there a halfway?). If you have kids that's fine. But if your ex controls you or kiss her ass because you're afraid of child support, you're probably not for me. I don't want or need anyone to play daddy to children. Their father is very much in the picture. Ok I'm done for now.
Where to begin?
A) pictures of your children on a dating website isn't acceptable
B) most of you need to say"yes" to the drugs question because marijuana is a drug
C) your career is how your ass is currently making money. Not what you hope to one day be when you maybe grow up
D) a real woman doesn't want to see pictures without your shirt. Why would I want every slut bag in Milwaukee knowing what my man is working with?
E) goes along with "D" many of you shirtless gents are scrawny anyways
F) Saggin n grills? Really? Grow up.
G) I also don't need to see photos of your stacks of cash or cars sittin on 22s. Show me a photo of your diploma, or the house you own instead.
H) "Entrepreneur" isn't a job unless your ass is paying taxes
I) saying things like "better than the rest" or " notlike the average guy" only makes you sound just like everyone else. I mean really, do you think some guy is going to say please date me I'm a loser ?
J) A real woman doesn't "chill" or "hang out" with someone they've never even met
K) no I'm not interested in going to your house to watch a movie. Wtf I don't even know you. How many women have you had over in the past to watch a movie?
L) baby, sexy, and ma aren't my name. You don't know me why would you use such affectionate terms with me? Oh wait I get it, you call everyone that. Hmm that makes me feel real special. (Note the sarcasm)
M) the last time I had a penpal was in 4th grade. If all you wanna do is text me, (yawn) you're boring. I mean really you're going to say "gm" "gn" and "wyd" EVERY day?
N) if you wanna **** be man enough to say that... stop all this bs it's a waste of time and my free text messaging
O) make plans in advance. Don't think I'm waiting around for you. You're last minute Saturday night "let's get together" crap only shows me your better options didn't work out and you're bored. "I'm more than just an option" heyheyhey... lol
P) I'm not bitter like I'm sure some of you may say. I'm just real. If you can't handle that Via pof, you're definitely not man enough to handle it in real life.
I don't think I have an ideal first date. I just thinks it should be something where we can get a chance to talk and get a feel for one another. If there's a second date, that's where you can make a great 2nd impression.