looking for that perfect match. I think the key to a good relationship is being very good friends and thats what I would like to start of as and then see what happens. I have been single for over a year now, I dont realy mind to much just gets lonely sometimes. Im selfemployed and have been working a lot lately, im changing what business im in so i will be busy for the next couple of months. so I figured i would try this and see if I might be able to get to know someone first.I dont go to the bars but mabey once a year just not my thing. I do like to go out but also like to stay in with that special someone and hang out and relax.