I'm a down to earth sexy brotha that loves to travel, laugh and have fun. My career keeps me busy and out of the country, so I rarely find time to get out and about. :( which is why I'm on POF. Perhaps I'll meet someone stable and secure enough to engage in a meaning full relationship even though we may not see other 60% of the time. Trust is a BIG ONE and I give it whole heartily 100% until given a reason not to trust. I don't do "second chances" and I don't do "let's make this work". We either match or we don't. I'm not hear to waste anyone's time, then again, meeting new people is never a waste of time in my book because you never know what may come of getting to know someone.
OH and if you're just out of a relationship, please, please, please don't expect me to be your NEXT!
Let your heart and mind heal before bestowing yourself on others. :)
I live in SoCAL so my hobbies are SoCALish :)
SO YOU WANTED....MORE!! About Me? (updated on 12/26/2013)
* NO I don't want to follow you on Instagram or Twitter (HELLO???)
* YES I have a car (matter of fact, I have two and they are both paid for)
* YES I have my own place (matter of fact, it's NOT paid for yet) LOL!!
* YES I do work a lot and travel
* NO I do not drive a BMW or a Benz on 24's (I invest smartly)
* YES I did purchase a new 2014 Yellow C7 as a Christmas Gift to myself
* NO I will not be picking you up in it (that's a 20 th date car) LOL!!
* YES I will be taking a decent charitable tax deduction this year (help others 1st)
* YES I do have a 401k (matter of fact, I have an IRA also)
* YES I do love to wine and dine
* NO I do not EVER expect YOU to pay for any dates (that's for new school young bucks out there)
* YES I do know how to change a tire, rebuild an engine and mow the lawn
* YES I do know how to drywall, repair a roof leak and remodel a kitchen (and not just pay someone else to do it)
* YES I am single because I do travel and work long hours (so I do not require a lot of attention)
* YES I am faithful when I'm out of town (my name ain't Kobe)
* NO I am not a "party club" every weekend type of person (but I do love to go out and have fun)
* YES I will ask "someone" to marry me someday (hopefully) LOL!!
* YES I do love Sushi but I also love Steak
* YES I do "eat" red meat, but I also love white and dark meat (WINK! WINK!) LOL!
* YES I do have a sense of humor and I love comedy shows
* NO I do not smoke cancer sticks
* NO I do not consume alcoholic beverages on a nightly basis
* YES I am looking for someone serious about being serious :)
* NO I will not be interested in you if you're posing with your boys on POF LOL!!
* YES I will pray with you and attend church with you
* YES I am a neat freak (but I'm not OCD)
* NO I will not stress out if you leave your clothes on the floor (LOL!!)
* YES I will stress out if you leave crumbs on my sofa (LOL!!)
* NO I do not wish to prove you right or wrong (GEEEZ!)
* NO I am not "trying something New" (and you shouldn't be either)
* YES I will give you my all and expect nothing in return (but only for so long) :)
* NO my phone will not be ringing or beeping while we're out on a date (because I don't give my number out to everyone)
* NO my phone will not be buzzing all night because I - AM - WITH - YOU (and not trying to text anyone else HELLLO people!!!!)
* NO I will not be dating you and trying to talk to other people (HEELLLOO!!! AGAIN!!!)
* NO I do not want to "see where it goes", I know exactly where I am and would like to be (you should also) LOL!!
* NO I do not want be the one that introduces you to "new things"
* YES your kids BETTER come first
* NO kids do not bother me (well, you having them don't bother me...but they may get on my nerves at some point just like they get on yours) LOL!!
* YES I do love kids and hope to have someday (already rotten ones or fresh new ones are cool too) LOL!
Just have fun and enjoy the persons company.
Don't care if it's dinner, coffee, concert, beach, sea world, zoo, park playy ground.
Anything that gets us out in the open so that we can be ourselves.